Hun this is normal. And you might be gay instead of bisexual. If the vagina grosses you out then you are not sexually attracted to women. Me myself am attracted to both penis and vagina.....so.....dunno what to tell you about your delimma

Lexie

Gay, straight, bisexual, you will be who you are. Of this I am certain. The hardest part for some is realizing and accepting what that means for them. When I was struggling with this, the best advice I got came from my mother, and I'll share it with you now,

She said to me, "You'll never be happy, never be at peace until you find the truth of yourself and live it."

Find your truth my friend, and live it! And know that you'll always have friends here in the Bisexuality support group you can talk to, no matter what your truth turns out to be."

Peace,

~A

sometimes sex organs can gross a person out even if they're attracted to that gender/sex. so the question is are you or have you ever been sexually attracted to women even if you don't like the sex organ? If not, then yes, you might be gay but it's okay. There are millions of gay people in the world- you are not alone.

Sexual abuse is very serious . Sexual abuse can cause changes in sexuality (about the only thing that can) but those changes are psychological not physiological. You need therapy and I hope you are already in therapy.

Please do not think that I am saying that you are ONLY attracted to men because of what happened to you- I honestly don't know. But being sexually abused does throw another element into the mix that makes it not as straight forward as it would otherwise be.

Regardless of whether you were born bi or gay, or if this is due to severe trauma, it's something that you have to accept about yourself and you have to realize that it's not a bad thing. Sexuality isn't good or bad.. it just is what it is. We're all here for you and you may want to consider joining (if you haven't already) a support group for homosexuality, homosexual men, or bisexual men as that will add mor elayers of support for you. Also the sexual abuse support group. And please.. please see a therapist if you aren't already.

Throw away all these man made titles, they're just something set in place to confuse you, sexuality is so much more than labels, stop worrying about turning into anything and just be a good human being. Enjoy getting to know people and see how that makes you feel, Don't pressure yourself or allow anyone else to pressure you. If you are lucky to find someone who truly sees the real You and chooses to love you and you do the same for them that's all that's important

I wouldn’t get hung up on labels. Whatever turns you on is what turns you on.
Paul

I felt the exact same way. I have no attraction, and am actually repulsed by a vagina. I also was "active" at a young age but I think it's just biological and who we are.