well...ur engaged! do u love him more than ur friend?? or u think you would live a happy life with her?? and she s not even single! SHE IS DATING UR BROTHER! it's tough but a problem like this u need to think about it really hard!! if you are happy with the man that ur gonna geet married to then be with him!! other then that it's all up to you!! i wish i could say more but it's kinda hard cause you know those people more! but trust me if you are happy with this man and wanna have a family with him and grow old together! it's wonderful! but if you like her so much and she can't get over you....thats something else!


i know it's kinda hard! but i hope i helped a little! :)

have a good day!

lol wow... haha i think it would just be a good idea to stay friends because if 1. your engaged... I think the guy loves you ( or girl). 2. if she is dating your brother, could that cause problems between you and your brother?

Im not to sure but a good saying that i like to use is "you have to become friends before you can become anything else"

The second option is that you could wait it out a few months and just explain the person that you are engaged to that you like your close friend and you jsut want to stay friends with him?. And as for your brother i think that he can get over it and find someone else.

Well let's see... you could start a real drama by having a fling with this girl, or you could figure that as as much as you like her, the risk of bad feelings between everyone is too great and decide not to pursue anything.

i have it all figured out. im nt going out with her and me and the guy are breaking up. also my bro dumped her coz she was a sex freak lol. but yeah im all good now. feels so great to get my head straight