Hi, it is really confusing and scary when you first start thinking about the same sex, and you also like the opposite sex! I know I was really confused, but you do figure it out eventually, but unfortunately it takes time to really find out what you want. I know that I felt fear, anxiety, I felt like I was different from everyone else like I'm an "alien" or something. I also didnt know if I was maybe gay, but then I'd get confused because I really liked girls.. Its hard! I know you would like to know what you want in your mind now, but as I said it takes time and you will clarify it in your mind in time I'm sure :) It does work out I promise... I now am married and have a daughter, and I still consider myself Bisexual. The only advice I can really give is just to relax and accept a little at a time some of these thoughts and feelings.. It is a unique experience and sometimes can feel quite exciting! Hope this helps :)

If you are thinking about then I just say go for it... Then either you like it or you don't.. No one has to know but you... You are fulfiling a need within you and if you don't you will always wonder what if... I have a boyfriend and have been with a couple women. I don't know if I could date women, but I like to fool around with them... I say try a kiss....

The only way to know if you like boys or girls is to try it. You may think you like it but untill you really get to try and do everything you have quetions on then you will never know. I would look for a close friend who is willing to try things with you. Im sure someone would like to know if they could posibly be bi too. Good luck and have fun!