Bisexuality Support Group
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.
Ok so , i have known i am bisexual for about a year although most of that year i was in denial and i refused to think about it, now i am proud of but i am not really ready to come out because i am in love with my best friend and if i do right now she will know and i do not want her know cause she is my best friend and i would be lost without her. ( and she is a bit homophobic but she has said at some point and several times in fact she wishes she were bi, can anyone explain that to me?)
However she is not very shy with her body and we are sometimes in the bathroom and she lifts up her shirt and goes like hmm.. i have nice boobs , which makes me feel very guilty because if she knew i was bi she would not do that .
I talked to a guy friend( who ironically i also like ) who knows i am bi and he says i should just enjoy it. but he is a bit of a pervert.
So i am really confused WHAT SHOULD I DO?
However she is not very shy with her body and we are sometimes in the bathroom and she lifts up her shirt and goes like hmm.. i have nice boobs , which makes me feel very guilty because if she knew i was bi she would not do that .
I talked to a guy friend( who ironically i also like ) who knows i am bi and he says i should just enjoy it. but he is a bit of a pervert.
So i am really confused WHAT SHOULD I DO?
At the same time though, I have a question for you, what would you want if you were in her shoes?
Someone else may feel differently but I don't see how you can be a good friend, and or care about her and not tell her. If you know that she would not do certain things if she knew, then you need to tell her so she can stop doing those things.
Yes, you are taking the chance of losing her, but do you really want to do her wrong? There is a chance that she will understand and not leave. That's my two cents.