I do not see any need to label ourselves. 'Coming out' and telling friends and family might leave them with a wrong impression of what we are really like. Also, we can change as we get older. When I was young I had relations with boys and young men of my own age as opportunities arose, although I was attracted to pictures of women. Later, when I had opportunities with women I have preferred that, but have also had encounters with men. It's best just to be ourselves without worrying about labels such as bisexual, lesbian or homosexual.

You said you were young, that tells me you can wait before deciding on a label, even for our own knowledge. But if it's something that you just have to know to have peace, look at what turns you on. There are several things that fall under turning you own. There are the mental turn on's, the emotional turn on's, the romantic turn on's, and the sexual (physical) turn on's.

I'm personally attracted to men, mentally, emotionally, romantically, and sexually. I'm only attracted to women romantically. I'm still bisexual. I know other bisexuals, that are some other mixture, there are very few that are exactly 50/50, but it does happen.

I lived for many years in the gay community, as a total gay man, and could have lived my whole life as a gay man, if I hadn't met the right woman. So if you only have a slight attraction to one sex, you might get away with being the sexuality. However, be careful, I've been married for 25 years now, and as much as I love my wife, I still have a need to be with a man, that causes me pain, despite that I'm not leaving my wife, so I know I'll have this pain the rest of my life, and that's fine with me.

You don't need to label yourself if you don't want to. Do you have dating experience? In my opinion, the best way to know what you want is to explore it. Go on a date with a woman. Go on a date with a man. Go on a date with someone non binary. Go on a date with someone trans. If you are interested / comfortable with sex, then have sex with men, women, trans, non binary. Make sure you practice safe sex, and get tested for STI's often. Basically just live your life. With life experience you will know what you are interested in. Also, be flexible with yourself, sexuality is fluid and can change. There are men that have been heterosexual their entire lives then fall in love with another man at the age of 55. They are lesbians that marry men. We are all just exploring and doing what feels good. Don't pressure yourself. Live and do what feels good. Good luck.

If you are acting as a bi it should be easy to complement yourself with a mindset you like.

I too have had mixed feelings, but I am set on doing the big venture and

love me, and still have room for my oral sex attitude with my ladies..
xxxxooo

Not sure what to do and how to figure out how feel. I am nervous to try but think it is the only way to determine where I am with my sexuality. Any recommendation or suggestions in order to be safe in the process?