I think being bi is better then straight or gay. we likr both so we get to try both. I hate it thugh when girls say there bi but really they just like to have sex with anyone. I truely love girls and i like guys, well one guy, my husband. My parents acted like i never told them.

I know what you mean. It's like its perfectably rational. Yes i think guys are hot, but i think girls are gorgeous to.

And everyone always tells me i'm greedy...GITS

I understand.. I never really got that recaction from my famliy once by one native girl who knew I was native and wanted to be my sis.But my famliy(mom dad,2 of my cuzin) are fine with it. But I wouldnt want my famliy to be like hey my girl is bi! not I am embrassed at all. I just dont see why people need to know in my case I really don date girls I just want a purely sexual realtionship * that seems so bad!* but ture. not saying I have never dated a girl..just saying it would take one hell of a girl to make me want to date her.. I just prefer to date guys..* just to make clear! I am not one of those girl who just makes out infront of people*..I am quit shy really..SHhH no one knows that LOL

i know exactly what you mean....ive had my relationships with girls and guys....i know a lot of people who are the same way....and im not confused one bit

i love my fiance and and cant imagine myself without him

but that doesnt mean that i dont still lust over girls just as much as i lust after guys...

im not confuse...i know exactly what i want!

amen. that's actually part of the reason my recent ex broke up with me.

i'm wit u 100%

As a bisexual man, I get crap from both the hetero & homo community, both thinking I'm one, posing as the other. It's all very chic & sexy to be a bi female, but a guy? Still WAY lack of respect, even revultion.

Human beings are sexual by nature and I imagine if we were left to our devices we would be attracted to either gender. Because of so called moral ethics, religion, social standards, our parents, etc. we feel the need to make a choice growing up. Some choose the opposite gender and regret it but stick to it due to that pressure. Some decide to go with what they knew all along and come out as gay. And some of us go with the fact that we are just suxual beings and the gender of who we are attracted to or fall in love with is not the issue, it's the individual person. It's really pretty simple if you think about it, but apparently not everyone can grasp that concept. I guess we're the smart ones eh? So when when someone says we are confused I say no, we are the only ones created to be sexual outside of procreation so there are no limitations except the ones you put on yourself so YOU must be confused and I'm so sorry you are.

i feel the same way. i hate when ppl say im just confused. its annoying and ppl should just mind their own business

I'm with you, think their jealous that we have more variety hahaha

I am happy to fuck a guy. That make me straight?
No.
I'm happy to fuck a girl. That make me gay?
How can it?

See, it makes me laugh. Someone said that their teacher said there is no "bi" or whatever but, if a "simple" thing like politics cannot be made to be be black and white, how the fuck can someone's feelings and thoughts?

Some people do make me laugh =]

Though, I think everyone is bi until they find someone which they fall in love with, why do you have to limit yourself to who you can be happy with? Fuck that for shit! I guess that's just narrow minded people for you.

you guys are great:D
i think peple should just mind their own buisness.
why does it matter who we like?