Bisexuality Support Group

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender or sex. Most bisexuals are not equally attracted to men and women, and may even shift between states of finding either sex exclusively attractive over the course of time.

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bisexuality is not just being confused...

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im so sick of people saying that.
i mean its confusing but thats not how i feel. i know who im atracted to and im so sick of people saying that you have to be either gay or straight.
i know how i feel. why cant i be both?

anyone else feel this way?
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i understand exactly what your saying.
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yeah... i totally agree! i like guy to much to give them up... but i like girls too...
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when i finally told my mom that i was bi.. she didnt support me, everyone else i know supports me in this choice and i have heard that its about being confused but its really not. I like girls AND guys but my mom cant accept that she doenst want me to tell people that beacuse she thinks that ill end up getting picked on because of it but everyone whos my friend knows...
it sux. One thing i know is that bisexuallity is NOT about being confused its about making the choice to be with both sexes
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Right on! i hate it when people say that stuff my mom told me she'd rather i'd be gay instead of bi cause bi sexuals are just confused
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I know. My teacher actually told me to my face that theres no such thing as being bi. I know tha I like guys. I know that I like girls. I dare someone to tell me I'm confused. (Why do I need someone else to tell me howI feel?)
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the people who say that bi's are just confused are the ones who are confused themselves
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exactly!
and why do ppl even care anyways?!
why cant we just be who we are?!
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I really hate it when people say that! My best friend does all the time. It really agitates me, y'know?
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thats the exact way i feel. like, i know how i feel and i just know I like both.I dont think any one should be made to feel like they have to choose one or the other. your attracted to who your attracted to.
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I mayhave just come out but i know that i like (wel...... not like luv!!!!!!!!!!) but its the same wit girls i know that im not a lesbian because i like guy and im not straight because i like girls so im bi why is it so hard for people to understand that?
its not hard for my
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I hate that. I'm not confused. I know who I am and who I'm attracted to. It's not confusion it's real. People need to freakin deal with it already!
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i totally get you. my sister never shuts up about that. it pisses me off so bad
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You preach it, girl! :) You can be both. There are millions of us out there. You are not alone.
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hmmm.. nobody has ever told me anything like that. mostly because i am a very strait foreward person. i know what i want and i get it. alot of people know that so i guess they don't see any point in argueing because argueing with me is like argueing with a brick wall. lol xD
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maybe more of us should start acting like brick walls in an argument so everyone else will just stop trying to tell us we're wrong.