I think this might mean girls making out for guys--- pretty stupid in my opinion. I think anything done for those reasons alone is pretty pathetic.

i wholly agree.

I was very leery my first time with a girl. I had been to strip clubs and gotten lap dances and stuff, but when I was with my first girl, I found out that women feel wonderful. They are so soft and sensual. Before my first experience I heard the saying that a woman can please a woman better than a man. I don't think that is completely true, but it has possibility. I believe that a woman knows how and where she likes to be touched and can very easily please another woman by doing these things. I used to think it completely disgusting that people of the same sex could be together. Then I experienced it and I LOVE it!

I think its wrong to say anything like this doesnt exist...its a person's individual experience. I've never been bi-curious--just always Bi LOL BUT I dont discount people who feel a certain curiosity and then once they experiment a bit realize oh ok that's not for me...
that's ok as long as they're up front that they're experimenting and not sure yet imo :) Some people know right away, and some learn through experience what they are and what they like

thats my understanding of it anyway. personally I avoided bi-curious people except one time...this young sexy SEXY girl that loved to wrap her legs around me and make out at parties every time she saw me....said she found me "hot" LOL but she had a bf and showed no other interest in any other girls so...haha I think she was just experimenting. She didnt do it for show tho--didn't care if we were just alone.

She grew out of it and then eventually we would just chat--no kissing LOL

bicurious ppl are just fake plain and simple. i have met bicurious girls in the past they just wanna experiment and back to dating a guy as if nothing happen i dont have time for that. i met one bicurious girl who used girls for sex if her man couldnt fuck her right im like omg i want someone who is in tune with their sexuality

thank you lady tiger

if you've never been with a girl yet, but like girls. doesn't that make u bicurious? u haven't been with a girl yet to even know how intense the feeling are.. i don't think that makes them fake or anything like that. maybe some but not all

I don't think every one who is curious is fake. There usually is some point in time when every one questions their sexuality, and becomes curious. It might take others longer to figure out what they want, but not EVERY bi-curious person is a fake. That's just like how a lot of gay, and straight people think bisexuality isn't real.

they are fake if they dont go along with it. im saying if a bicurious girl says lets meet yet she flakes out on u multiple times sounds like she has no interest in trying it with a girl. too many i ran across never acted on their feelings they just wanted to cyber or talk dirty about what it would be like with a girl. i told one bicurious girl i dont want a damn story of how it would be hot to fuck a girl i want action i dont do storytelling then she called me a bitch and never wanted to speak to me again fine with me!

to me, they are fake as they come. i agree with the lesbians now i see why lesbians dont wanna deal with bicurious chicks. i have asked lesbians why they dont wanna be bothered for the same reasons i have already said it is nothing but a fling for them if these bicurious girls have no interest in wanting to become a couple then they are a waste of time im not ur sexual lab experiment! if ur prude and scared to try it with a girl, i lost interest and have no use in speaking to the bicurious girls.

all im saying is dont play games with women who are already comfortable in their sexuality. i would want someone who is comfortable and open minded not some girl who is gonna play high school games with me.

Yes, there are girls who do it for attention, and who just want flings. But the question was focused on all bi-curious people. My first bisexual experience was with a lesbian, when I was curious. Things didn't work out with her, but that was because she was experimenting with me. Believe it or not, she was the one who was playing games. So there are fakes in every sexuality, not just bi curious. There are also plenty of people who say their gay, just for attention. Or gay/bisexual people claiming their straight. The point is people are jerks, of every single sexual orientation.

Lmao.

Let me get this straight... (Haha, no pun intended...)

If you've never been with someone of the same sex, but are attracted, you are bi-curious...

So by the same token, if you've never been with someone of the opposite sex, but are attracted, you are STRAIGHT-curious?!?

Lol.

I think the whole concept of must enjoying sex with someone of the same sex to confirm your sexual identity is kinda bunk. It's about so much more than just who is the greatest lay...

i kinda wonder those who have been bi for a long time, have u ever messed with or dated a bicurious girl? all i have to say is ask a lesbian how they feel about them. b4 i dated a girl, i called myself bicurious and i never used sex as an excuse to get laid by a girl plenty of bicurious girls use sex as an excuse. later on, i stopped using the word bicurious and said bisexual cuz bicurious wasnt getting me anywhere i had other women bi and les were giving me accusations of lying saying i wanna have sex so bad with a woman and dump them for a guy or whoever. i have no reason to lie they all told me i was dump and heart broken by how bicurious girls used me.

i didnt have time for that drama this was when i was in middle and high school. at that time, i wasnt with a girl like i said stopped using bicurious. i was dead on looking to meet a girl and dating one but that never happen until i was 23 got my 1st gf took me 10 yrs! i was and not FAKE about my sexuality nor did i flip flop like the other silly bicurious girls i have ran into have.

i remember i met one bi girl who said about bicurious girls how she doesnt wanna be "their teacher" and how if they cant be comfortable in their own skin and sexuality, she didnt want nothing to do with them. she told me i want women (bi or les) who are comfortable with themselves and not just "experiment" just to see what they truly are.

thats what the bi girl told me. i had a bicurious girl contacted me one time wanting to meet. i didnt wanna meet her she sounded too fake a bitch etc all of the above but she was older than me and lived in the next neighboring city. talking to her made my eyes and head hurt because what i found out about her is she flipped flop and change her story about being with a woman. i found out she wanted to sleep with women just to be sleeping with women until she "found something better." i asked what the fuck does that mean? i blocked her she was so ignorant. i told her b4 i blocked her that if u have no interest in dating/marrying a woman, then u have no business claiming to be bicurious!

im not dissing bicurious chicks, i dont like them. i wouldnt wanna go thru a bicurious girl telling me how much she likes me yada yada yada, we do it, then she breaks my heart terribly and leaves me for someone else cuz she got her fuck on! i had too many players speaking as they wanna be with a woman and finding out that isnt true i dont have time for that.

in case most bi girls didnt know, most lesbians if u date them wont date a girl who isnt comfortable in their own skin. bicurious out of the question must be comfortable with herself as a woman and in her own sexuality. im just speaking for myself i dont know how everybody else on here feels. i had women in the past disregarded me because i wasnt experienced with women i met someone who gave me a chance and we dated for 2 mos then the relationship went sour because of her.

of course, its my opinion, not asking anyone to agree with me these are just my experiences with bicurious girls and how i would never waste my time with them.

hmmm, just thought of something, i notice bicurious girls want to experiment but then wanna keep u a secret not my kind of thing.

EllieElle, you took the word right out of my mouth!! I've never been with a girl but I certainly am more than bi-curious...
I guess I see it as experimentation, flirting without wanting to really pursue a complete lifestyle??? It's a phase more than. Real state of being.

a phase??! without being into the whole lifestyle? why not just say i want a girl a fuck buddy! i met one girl who said she doesnt wanna be in the whole bisexual lifestyle i was like really? why even be curious? this girl was younger than me too i call it a contraction