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why I ask why?

kittycat72d
kittycat72d
I just want to know why things happen to me and why people treat me the way they do. Am I doing something wrong? I am nice to people and I get S*** on all the time it seems. My brother is a total A******. He is doing things just to annoy me and stealing things from me and making messes I have to clean up if I want to live here. grrrr he pissses me off......... I wish he was not here anymore. I f I had my way he would not be. He is 41 years old and acts like a child grow the F*** up will you. I know alot of people that act way better than you do come on. What the F**** did I do to you to deserve this crap. I have been nothing but nice to you and helped you. I just dont understand it. I just want to run away and die..............................................................................
deleted_user
deleted_user
Why don't you just leave... Do you need his financial help? Is this why you stay with him?
kittycat72d
kittycat72d
no I am living with my dad right now and my brother lives downstairs in the basement and that is where I am now. There is no room upstairs to stay. I have no job n money nothing. My dad is basically supporting me right now. I cant take this though. My dad has been saying he is going to add an upstairs for me to live well the plans are done and just waiting now for the builders. I have been waiting almost a year now next month now I have been dealing with this crap for almost a year now I dont have a choice. I have nowhere else to go. It is a complicated situation.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You know.... that's just family sadly... they're the pain in the neck that you love that annoys you yet will always be there only you can't stand the mother f'ers :D

Someone said "Hell is being forever locked up in a room with all your friends" I think that goes double with family. My cousin is one of my best friends.... If we spend more than 3 days together we just piss each other off you know :)

I get your situation is complicated. I don't know what you're dealing with but I do know that nothing... NOTHING is easy. But can you think of something you might be able to do? Maybe money-wise or doing some sports or something to switch things up a bit?
arfie
arfie
"Why?" is my personal favorite avoidance tactic. As long as I can stay focused on why, I can avoid the risky work of taking effective action.

Take action kittycat. I suspect you already know what needs doing. Stick to it. It is harder, but much more productive than getting lost in Whyland.
deleted_user
deleted_user
It keeps happening because you are allowing it too. Some mistake kindness for weakness.
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