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Venting: I'm a Nasty Little Slob

iam30113
iam30113
I won't lie, I don't like to clean and I do as little of it as possible but not when it inconveniences others. For quite sometime now I've been doing all the cooking at my place for myself and my housemate and also doing the dishes 95% of the time, despite having cooked. She just had our landlady come to me to tell me that she- my house mate- is tired of doing all the cleaning. i'm so pissed I don't even want to see her right now. I feel like crap. I feel so insulted. I was just standing there laughing sarcastically when my landlady told me cos I just couldn't believe the gall of that girl. I really don't need this kinda crap right now and i can't leave because I'm waiting for a delivery. I do not want to be home right now. I cook, she eats and she still thinks I should turn around and clean up? For REAL?!
freenowfinally
freenowfinally
I would call the landlady and tell the landlady to tell your roomy to pick up the spoon she left in the drainer and while she was at it to turn off the light she left on too! That should do it...LOL
spacepony
spacepony
Well, at least the landlady did not take sides :/

I'm inclined to think calmly telling your roommate how you feel (not bringing her gall into it) would ease tension in YOU. The devil take her...
iam30113
iam30113
Lol. Why couldn't you guys be my housemates? Right now I'm just gonna let it slide. I'll just continue to do what I've always done or maybe I'll just stop cooking for her that way we'l have our own dishes to do.
SensitiveHoboLady
SensitiveHoboLady
Oh roommates. So tough. I hope it gets better iam!
spacekat
spacekat
We have a rule in our house - whoever cooks, the other cleans. It doesn't always work....but it's there.
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