Bipolar Disorder Support Group
Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.
No chores = no allowance/rewards.
Don't let your family walk all over you. Be calm but firm. You are not a live-in maid, you deserve respect and it's time they got off their lazy asses and did their fair share.
JennS, iweartiaras is right. You shouldn't have to put up with having to do everything.
*hugs* I don't really have any helpful advice, but I wanted to comment and give you a hug.