Thanks victoria. I don't know why strangers are more understanding than my best friends. I never feel guilty about what I do until I talk to them. Maybe I just shouldn't tell them about it anymore.

Not telling them is the best idea I've heard yet. It's none of their beezwax and never will be. Keep it to yourself. Even if they ask. Tell them point blank, "It's private." OR "NONE OF YOUR BIZNIZ!!"

Flirt, have fun, and don't make mistakes you are going to regret. You are young and beautiful and save it for someone you love and who adores you. Anything less is consuming and defeating to your well being.

Agree with RKB.

There are some psychiatric disorders that have a tendency to make you want to do things. Being BP, spending, rather over-spending, seems to be one of the things we like to do when we are manic. I have read that having sex 'promiscuity' (sp?) is also something BPers do. I don't think anyone should judge you. Please be safe when engaging in such behaviour. Protect yourself.

Just remember whatever you tell people assume there is much more

Alliegator, do you mean you are becoming more in touch with your sexuality than becoming a 'slut' ?

I don't know many sluts who are virgins.

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Keep it for as long as possible. Once you lose it, there will be no going back.

Slutty..... are you talking about the way you are dressing or are you just having a lot of sexual urges? If so, that's pretty common in teenagers and if it's just complete hypersexual feelings, that's a trait that comes in some people with bipolar disorder. I have it, it started happening when I was 16 and I was like "wtf?" But it's great if you're in a committed relationship - which I am in. If you do decide to have sex, make sure you're protected and know the guy pretty well. I put myself in a dangerous situation with a hookup once and wow did I pay for it. Make sure you're also sober too, always be sober and don't do anything that you don't want to!

if they call you a slut watch what you wear they might think your easy and number two can lead to getting raped. i dont take being called a slut a joking matter.

Yosemite Sam gives advice on coquettishness ?
At it like a rabbit.

Are you hypomanic? When I am manic, I tend to um, sleep around more. I hate to say more. I get really sexual when I am manic.

Allie, your friends are pretentious prudes. If you are a virgin at 19, YOU ARE NOT A SLUT! Tell em to stick it.

I dont get it. How can you be a virgin and be a slut. Maybe youre just a tease. There is another word for that!

You can get away with the 'slutty' look when younger, one thing is to not look like mutton dressed as lamb in later life, that is real baaaaad !

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