I think you sabatoge yourself..only you can answer that reason

IMHO

I tend to put my foot in my mouth on many occasions in real life and online on other places. I guess just think before you do something? Easier said than done - right?!?

the time I made the mistake of going on one of the normals' boards. man they set me off.

I am Zool.

I don't remember examples, but I know when I'm pissed off I say a lot of nasty shit to people. I mean, I post a lot of nasty shit.

...not that they don't deserve it.
Oops, there I go again.

I've done this before, it's a fatalstic attitude that we take when things start going down hill. At my job like 5 years ago I was reprimanded by my boss, so during my final days I tried to be the worst employee ever. I was purposely lazy about everything and called out every other day. On the final day I went out with guns blazing and cussed everyone out. You sorta get into thias mindset that things can't be any worse than they already are, but I learned the hard way that things CAN get worse if you don't exercise some self-control (They got a restraining order against me so if I ever show my face around there again I can be hauled off to jail.)

....and such a cute face it is.

I think we all have our trigger points that make us go off. For you chuggs it seems to be friendships and relationships, since this comes up a lot.
I understand, I have similar issues. I solved that problem by being a total hermit (not-so-LOL)
I think that trying to understand our triggers helps us check our reactions. I'm trying to work on my relationship trigger; it's tough so I hear ya, manz.

I can also relate somewhat to Calus's response- I think it's easy to say 'fuck it, it's already down the drain so why not set it on fire, too?" Failure or perceived failure seems to set off this reaction.

At certain times I can become confrontational with total strangers. I seem to have no fear.
I am a trained police officer so I'm like
"bring it on". I was getting gas one time and this big man had his stereo blasting. I told him to turn it down and that no one wanted to hear his music. He ignored me. So, I said it again and he closed his door. I hate loud noise. I also hate strong perfume.
I have come awful close to saying something to women while shopping but instead I walk away. So, I have to practice extreme control out in public at times.

I dont know about you but when I'm on a self distructive roll, I tend to make things as bad as I can....keep stoking the fire.

I dont know about you but when I'm on a self destructive roll, I tend to make things as bad as I can....keep stoking the fire.

I feel I do the same thing sometimes. I am not as bold as you are Chugg. Something I quite honestly envy. I have come on here more than once and cut loose on people I felt were being _________. Fill in the blank it doesn't matter. If they were not acting or saying what I thought they should I felt a need to let them know.

I went on a 6 month kick where I was constantly posting to threads simply to correct people's spelling and grammar. Yeah, I was a real douche.

Some of us get wild hairs more often than others. I will be taking anger management classes next month. I am more likely to say things in person than online. I take the internet about as seriously as a video game. I used to get really emotionally involved, but then I got a clue. I care about people on here and would never try to hurt anyone, but come on, it's the INTERNET not real life.

We are over sensitive, I think that's why we take things so personally.