My son has been dating this girl for a year now, they moved into an apartment together with her cousin and his girlfriend. This is my sons second time around with this girl. She is bipolar. Things have been going good, talking about getting married, having kids, getting a house etc, she even left our house on Saturday saying bye mom and dad. She had a good day off on Monday with my son, then she tells him it's over, she is moving out today, and no real reason. He is shell shocked, he doesn't know what happened, no fights no feeling that this was coming. He is a reck and now he is stuck in this one year lease with her family and no way out. She doesn't take her meds because she doesn't like the way they make her feel.
The reason I am posting here is I am at a loss for what to do with my son. How to I explain what he doesn't want to see. She has been in and out of her mom and dads house, moving in with the one that she isn't fighting with for the month. I like her, but now I don't ever want her back with my son. He was going to per-pose and now this, I need a find a way to get my son to move on. Please don't think I am a controlling mom,it's just I can't take him crying for three days straight. All he keeps asking is why? All I want for him is to be happy, help me understand, and help me not mess this up more than it is.