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My colleagues ( my fellow college students) , many of them hate me because I used to be the top of my class now I flunked two subjects and I think they're happy because of it. They say things behind my back and when I ask for help they lie and say they don't know.
I want to hate them and lie too , if they won't help me then I won't help them but I think that this will make me like them and karma will eventually bite me in the a** .
Please give me your opinion , do I stop helping them and just stay away or be the better person even if it will hurt me academically ?
I want to hate them and lie too , if they won't help me then I won't help them but I think that this will make me like them and karma will eventually bite me in the a** .
Please give me your opinion , do I stop helping them and just stay away or be the better person even if it will hurt me academically ?
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It's usually fitting to be the better person or at least think we're being the better person. It won't do any harm to keep being helpful and you can do that without getting personally involved.
You say that they hate you and talk behind your back.. That they're happy when you're failing???
Why would you think that they don't want to help you.. hate you and how would you know that they're talking behind your back??
I'm just wondering if there's some paranoia going on or not sweetie??.. I'm not trying to add insult to injury
Great big hug for ya
No need to be around anyone who is undermining you. There's a word for that "Schadenfraude"- German for 'feeling pleasure in someone else's downfall". I've had people pull that on me. Fuck em!
There are plenty of fish in the sea. Surround yourself with people you can trust-- this is really really important. I wish I'd learned that long ago.
I got lots of that crap in college. Blow it off & find support elsewhere.