I enjoy beauty in all its forms. One needn't pluck the flower to enjoy the scent. I've chosen to live chastely. It's good for me and I hope you find your own solution.

i think my husband misses it too....

I'm so glad I've learned to control it...I got into way to much trouble!!!!!!!!

Instead of quitting meds all together (i'm assuming thats what you meant), maybe you could switch to something else? If not, maybe try seeing an herbalist? There are many different things that supposedly help increase sex drive. I can't really name any at the moment, but thats because my head is alittle foggy from being sick.

It's also possible that your just going through a dry spell. That happens to me every once in awhile, in which case I just gotta wait it out.

I feel like I've been "fixed". I don't miss it, cuz I no longer care about it. But the upside is, now look at qualities other than sex appeal in a bf.

Consider Yohimbe? Ask your doc, though, if he would support your use of it, since it is a very minor MAOI and can have psychotropic effects. But supposed to be quite good for the male libido (not just performance but desire)?

Hyper sexual what's that??????????

Ah, sex is over-rated....think of all the benefits....

I would rather enjoy the being sain then the hypersexuality. Sain I can live life, insain I can only dream of it inbetween the psychoctic episodes,

Kase

lts true being hyper puts sex on the brain and every nerve is screaming hubba hubba but now you have to try working towards feeling sexual excitement. Touch is soooo important and not the genitals first, a naked massage from your partner who has to take their time and not end in any sexua l contact for the first few times its not about them but getting you to feel good and pressure free.

Try warm baths and touching yourself then after being towled and moisturised by them have fun using touch with feathers while being blindfolded etc in other words instead of it being about nookie nookie its all about the foreplay and it has to be the best ever not oh hun let me rub your feet now lets get to it. Try buying some books for new ideas because if you're waiting until you feel the sex spark you may be waiting a while you need to go hunting for it.

I miss it to. In my case it's probably a good thing as tended to stray from wife, not by cheating but rather with thoughts a cheating.

Actually I won't call it cheating but rather sexual fulfillment with pretty much anyone that was receptive to my charms. The meds have either dulled that sensation or have opened my eyes to my obligations to my wife. In any case the need for sex has greatly been diminished.

I don't think it's a good thing. It's defined and being a pathological state, it was what was called nymphomania in women and satyrisis in men. I don't think it's even healthy in a relationship because the other person dosen't matter any more.

Please note I am distinguishing this from healthy high sex drive or as Dr Mandrake puts it "feeling very, very randy"

If randy means going for fat European chicks I would even go for that LoL

hey....!!

okay not fat...Big Boned =)