BUMP!

thanks for the update, Jen. that's good to know.

you are loved and needed here

chug go get help like you have told others no farewells accepted on this end

Chuggs, I dont know you really well, but have followed your posts for a while now, well enough to know what a caring, helpful person you are. If you have somehow inadvertantly hurt someones feelings (and we all do from time to time, even without meaning to, this is a sensitive bunch) I am sure the number of folks you have helped far outweighs that.
Once on another board, I responded to someone who said *Help, Please Advise Me* and was begging for suggestions on coping with her BP/Depression. I gave her what I thought was good intended, helpful advise. She messaged me back saying *how could you say those hurtful things! Dont ever reply to me again you horrible person!*
I didnt know what I did wrong, but felt terrible. I simply replied that I meant no harm, and would never reply again, and wished her well.
Stay!

Chug, You have helped so many people and you have so many friends, Please, Dont do anything! Please stay with us. In this world sometimes we will hurt people unintentionally and they will get over it and forgive us, just as people hurt and will hurt us and we forgive them. Please let get some help! Plese let us help you if we can if only by listening and being here for you! You have so much to offer people and this world and you just cannot leave! I don't even know you really well but what I do know tells me that your a awesome guy and your needed and wanted! I will pray for you! You can get through this! Please Respond!

BUMP!

I know I dont know you, but after reading your profile it seems you like to take care of others more than yourself. For now, let someone else do the helping and let us help you. Take some of that weight off your shoulders and let us pick up the slack. You need to be cared for and loved too!

get back here chuggs. isnt the same without ya. hope your alright

Chuggs, we love you and need you here with us. Don't give up hope.

Don't leave us Chuggs. We all hurt ppl occasionally whether it be purposefully or inadvertently. Everything is forgivable & if those ppl won't forgive you then they are the idiots. You are a great person! ****Hugs**** Please don't leave us.

I don't accept a farewell either. I pray that you are OK!!! You are our rock and we need you here!!!

Wow Chugg not sure where this came from I have not been on DS for about 4 days I guess a lot can happen! I think you are such an awesome guy that has helped and befriended so many, what has happened that has you running the other direction? Please don't let what others think and do dictate what you do with yourself, you are worth living, you are worth being loved and loving....YOU are IMPORTANT DAMNIT! Don't let anyone take that from you not even your thoughts! I hugged you sometime back and recommended a series of CD's books on CD if you, will called The Secret, I beg you to go get it and listen to all 4 CD's . I will burn you a copy if you want me to. I will be shocked it The Secret does not change your life. NOTHING IS UNFORGIVABLE, way too absolute, this world is not black and white! Chugg... You have a heart so big and so much to offer the world don't believe me just take a look at the inside-You! You are admired and thought of highly, and so thoughtful usually putting others before yourself. I am going to say a prayer for you and believe that your great big heart and giving nature will not allow yourself to do anything but to live and continue being the man you were meant to be. ((((((BIG HUGS))))))

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJbE8

here is the youtube on The Secret, it only touches on the CD's.

Chug you are always one of the people who are there to help all of us not make this decison, please do not do this!