You may recall I write that my sister and he husband were in an affair with my brothers wife. It's been almost a year. Mom last week asked me to invite my sisters boys to a birthday at my house for my brothers daughter. I was on my way to pick up the boys when my mom called and told me to turn around. Apparently my brother didn't know my nephews were coming and he was livid. I came home to a heated conversation between mom and my brother. He wa so angry. So I texted my sister to say Jake was upset because he didn't know the boys were coming. I apologized profusely in my text. I got a text back from my sister saying 

"this is the last time any of you get to do this to my children. They have been looking forward to this for two weeks. Next time check with the person throwing the party. Lose my number. We're all dead to you " 

 I was so upset and I just told mom they said "ok". Well my brother then told me just go pick up the boys. I told him I'd already told my sister no. I didn't nest to upset anybody hours before the party. He said if I don't pick up the kids he will. Well then my brother in law called my mom and bitched her out. She ended up hanging up becas he called her a terrible mother and other things. So mom was in tears. She wa inconsolable. 

 Well my brother took off and when he cane back he had my 9 year old nephew which shocked me to pieces. 

 I have no blocked and deleted both my sister and her husband on everything. 

 Yes I understand it wa wrong in so many ways to "disinvite" my neihews last minute. 

 What I have learned from thei is not to be a messenger ever again. If you have something to say to someone tell them yourself. 

 I am actually numb at this point because I don't know how to feel or think. 

 I don't have a therapy session this weeek scheduled so I emailed my therapist that I need to talk to her this week and can she please squeeze me in somewhere. 

 None of this is fair. My sister and I were just texting last week and I was hoping there was an opening somewhere. Now I'll likely never see her again or her kids. I'm just numb.