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you hang out with a guy that you think that you can have a relationship with..we've been togther for seven months. i must be doing something wrong. i caught him on numerous single sites and he said it was to learn how the internet works, does he think that i am so stupid???? i signed up on a site, i asked him if he was seeing anyone at the time and he said no. who am i????i feel like a messenger/secretary. i have given my all and when he comes over now he sits in the reclineer and falls asleep. when he wakes up he kisses me and says goodbye. that he needs to beat the traffic to get home. he leaves earlier all the time now. i don't know what to do, my ex had seven women on the side....i am afraid of being hurt again. i would rather know what he plans in the future and if i am part of it or if he wants someone else. the longer it takes to know the harder it will be to let go. looking for answers...
He's just coming over to put on the air that you have a "relationship" probably to his friends. You are near and in person in case he gets horny.
Set up a trap if you really need to get it set in your mind. You said you signed up on the site and contacted him. Go back and see if he will meet you somewhere in person. If he says yes then in person you make an excuse why you can't see him that night. That gets him off the hook of having to come over and he's free to meet your on-line person. Then go and meet him make it at a restaurant or bar/club. Sit where he won't see you then send him a drink and say it's from your screen name and have them tell him where you are sitting. When he comes looking for you. BUSTED!!!
But I think you already know that he's not the guy for you. Or you wouldn't be asking us our opinion.
It does sound like something is up. Hopefully he'll be honest with you when you confront him.