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you hang out with a guy that you think that you can have a relationship with..we've been togther for seven months. i must be doing something wrong. i caught him on numerous single sites and he said it was to learn how the internet works, does he think that i am so stupid???? i signed up on a site, i asked him if he was seeing anyone at the time and he said no. who am i????i feel like a messenger/secretary. i have given my all and when he comes over now he sits in the reclineer and falls asleep. when he wakes up he kisses me and says goodbye. that he needs to beat the traffic to get home. he leaves earlier all the time now. i don't know what to do, my ex had seven women on the side....i am afraid of being hurt again. i would rather know what he plans in the future and if i am part of it or if he wants someone else. the longer it takes to know the harder it will be to let go. looking for answers...
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I would let him go. If someone is right for you, they will enjoy spending time with you and not rush out at this man does. It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants and is using you as a crutch until he decides what he is going to so. Like he wants you around until he makes up his mind if he wants to be with you or not. If someone cares about you, they would let you go until they decide what they want, taking the chance that you would find someone else. It is rude for him to keep you hanging on. Let him go, you deserve better.
deleted_user
I AGREE.. LET HIM GO! PEOPLE WHO LIE ARE AFRAID OF THE REAL TRUTH,AND IT WILL ONLY BE WORSE FOR YOU...
deleted_user
He's obviously not being completely truthful with you. I would simply let him go and move on to someone else. It's worth the chance that you might get hurt to hang onto someone who is obviously so ambivilent in his feelings for you.
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I would let him go. I would also cosider seeing a counselor/therapist. I only say that because you seem to have a history with unfaithful men. A counselor may help you to identify with why you are attracted to these men. And more importantly, help you to recognize their tendencies so that you dont end up making the same old mistakes again. Whatever you do...dont give up on love!
starfish
I agree. Now you have 5 votes for leaving him. At this stage of his game, he probably just doesn't want to tell you and hurt you, hoping you will figure it out, get mad, and kick him out (so he doesn't have to deal with the guilt) So either way, give him a test - tell him he can't come over anymore if he's too tired to spend time with you. He needs to sleep at home (this should give hiim the message you are on to him, and he needs to shape up or ship out - his choice, his guilt)
deleted_user
Does not sound compatible at all.
deleted_user
girl, you already know the answer! you have been through it before, your bf is steppin out! stick with your instincts cause you know they are true. dont let him lie his way out of it! my ex did the same thing! he had 5 myspace accounts and thought i was too stupid to find them! duh he put his real name down on all of thme!!! he also didnt know you can check history on the pc and i did daily cause i knew he was up to something, he was going to adult friend finder!!! he finally fessed up! he said it was an addiction. i put a block on the pc about xrated internet sites and put a password in so he couldnt view them! pissed him off but oh fucking well! stop it before it get way out of hand! you deserve way better, what he is doing is emotional abuse and you dont deserve that, kick his ass to the curb no matter how much you think you love him there are millions of fish in the sea and you will find a better man when your least expecting it!
agrandkitten
i agree with everyone elses reponse, he sounds like a loser, and he also sounds like a liar. Kick him to the curb.
rossid
It takes a devoted, usually a man of God, to remain faithful and resist temptation.
deleted_user
Girl let him go he's already thinking about other people, he's just too afraid to say something.
deleted_user
Quit clinging. Have your own boundaries and life. Be good to yourself and let him go....
deleted_user
Agreed . He is just playing around there is not a relationship to him .Plus HONESTLY could you ever trust him again if he said there was? You deserve better .
deleted_user
Agree with everyone else with the exception of one. It does NOT take a man of god to be a good man. Some of the most brutal heinous twisted psychopaths in history have been "men of god". I myself am an agnostic, but have managed to stay married for over a quarter century.
deleted_user
Dump him..get rid...he is not worth the bother. You are worth so much more.
deleted_user
I think you already knew the answer to your question before you posted but now you have plenty of people who agree that the loser has to go.
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