You are a strong, strong person to face this and most importantly to do something about it. Keep your support system around you now and don't doubt you're doing the right thing. Take care and we'll be here for you. You can do this!

Make the bastard pay is right! You have all my support. Stay strong, I believe you are doing the right thing.

What a terrible thing you have gone through
Here is a massive hug of comfort
Taking power back will be a great thing for you I have no doubt.
He will at least be known to authorities and hopefully another woman will not have to go through this horror
Good for you courageous lady!

You have my support in making him pay.
If it was up to me I'd make all rapists strip down to been butt naked, then tie barbed wire to there balls, then put weighted boots on them & make them march up & down on the spot. Then I'd put a bag over there head march them off to a remote spot & shoot them in the balls then the head.

wow Olenka ... Grenadine my friend I think you make the right choice. Don't be afraid ... you can do it.

Do you have proof? I hope so otherwise it's gonna be a he said/she said kinda deal.I never had any physical proof so the best I could do was report my perpetrator. Good luck!

Thanks everyone who replied to my post. I have been thinking about seeing him a lot lately and the whole thing. At the same time I think I've blocked it out a bit like I do when it comes to the subject.

The day after it had happened, I told my mom and she took me to the hospital. They did the rape kit. It was traumatic. But there is evidence on file.

The next time I see my therapist at the Sexual Assault and Trauma Resource Center I am going to tell her that I want to pursue the case. She has told me that I will have access to an advocate who will come with me to the police station and further.

Again, thank you. Thank you.

sounds like a wee ptsd... friend going through that.. he cleaned her and she tried to press charges and couldnt... no evidence.

do what you can to make you feel better.. even if he isnt thrown away right now... leopards dont change their spots...

love girl, this shit is difficult and it sucks... no one should be treated so poorly.. i hope you find peace at some point... hugs

Olenka- ouch. I would super glue their private to their legs and toss them into general population wearing a blond wig and sweet perfume and soap on rope. now that's justice.
oh ya I would give them whats called soft peter in their oat meal.

Ladies we still out number men and I still do not know why we don't band together to introduce new laws and a mend old laws regarding rape & domestic abuse.
Despite those who have been abuse to point that they can not help thierselves nor join in such chances it is up to rest of us to carry thier voices along w ours to achive our consitutional rights.