I married a man seven years my junior. I've always liked younger guys - I'm really not sure why.

It's hard for guys to date younger chicks. To much f'n drama. Then again maybe I should find me a 18 year old.

any ideas how i can get hubby to be more adventurous too? (as long as we're on the subject)

have him take the kids to your moms and then when he walks back in the house make sre he is walking in on something that he cant say no to

I have always prefered younger except were childrens sperm donor was concerned and we all know how well that ended lol. The rule in my house was (no longer care since they have disowned mom) was that anyone I was sleeping with had to be 4 years older than Mel (this is of course after Mel turned 21. . . now my rule is lol they must be 21

Wigs, Uniforms, Fantasies, try it in public, glass elevator, have him make a list of his fantasies, and try to carry them out. School girls, Cheerleaders, LIbrarians/secretaires, and French Maids. Guys like that stuff.

@Asch-

what about dressing up? I mean, in fun clothes. Or, maybe a long jacket with knee-high boots and nothing else. Maybe a red tie.

hmm. as for "adventurous" - do you guys have any upscale sex shops in your area?

we keep saying we are going to get a hotel room one weekend, ride the Harley over to the casinos and spend the day at the beach and then get a hotel room, no kids no cats, just him and me, i've bought several different types of lubricants and want to "try them out" but he doesn't seem to interested

Let him catch you being bad, talk about your fantasies and try acting on one or two of each others. I am sure there is no sex shop down there but go shopping together online for some new toys orer some neither of you would never think of orderig but secretly would like to try

Goes back to letting him catch you being bad . . I seriously dont know of a guy that could walk in a room find his woman masturbating and not want to join in at some point. Hell I dont know of a woman who could walk in on that and say no

Yeah what Raven said...LOL

I don't know about the drama part but my husband sometimes wishes he hadn't married a younger woman, said he couldn't keep up with me...

Well considering my sex drive has always been high and has gone in to wicked over drive in the last 10 years I seriously dont think someone my age could keep up with me male or female besides that out of the sack younger are just more fun . . . .

Personally I think you are who you are with. And this may be WAY to personal but oh well I have gotten way more personal than this before.

When I was with T he was 10 years older than me and could out fuck me any day any time. After a while of being with him I was right up there with him. That lastest for 3 years. Now with husband I keep trying and I keep getting turned down. So my sex drive has dropped significantly since then, it is still there but it doesn't come around much.

So I really don't think age has that much to do with it, it is more of the attitude and the way the other person acts.

Naw we have gotten way more personal around here lol but gee thanks for sharing :P