hes right you cant change it, unless you abort, but you should go to the doctor.

if you were supposed to get your period and you didn't really get one its time to take a pregnancy test! scary i know but at least you can confirm your fears or find out your not pregnant and be really excited lol....hope that helps

Okay, firstly I can't really tell if you're pregnant but friends who have gotten pregnant before have told me they have "spotting" which may be what you have described. However, having said that I had a major pregnancy scare earlier this year when I had milk excreting from my breasts (which was one major sign of pregnancy). I took a pregnancy test at my hospital and thankfully it was due to the antidepressant I was taking at that time. So what I would suggest is to go to the hospital, preferably with your husband. If he can't be supportive find a great friend you trust in. Before you go for the test, prepare yourself by looking at the options in case you are pregnant. Abortion, adoption, or keeping the baby may be possibilities. I've known of people who had babies in the midst of college or graduating and although they freaked out at first they felt like the baby turned out to be a gift. I'm not trying to convince you of anything. Because I, for one, am celibate with my fiance for now until we're ready for a baby because we didn't want to take risks.

In any case, good luck. But do go for the pregnancy test. And bring your husband or best friend along.

Sending you love and hugs

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Okay just saying this...if you are fairly new to this birth control it could be your bodies way of adjusting to the new hormone levels. Also it is only a few days late and stressing out about will only NOT make it come if you are not prego.

Buy a pregnancy from the drug store and then if it comes up positive call gyno and take it from there..and if it is negative breath and your period will hopefully start and if it doesn't in a week or two..then call and ask doctor..

I know what it is like to stress out about having a baby or the preganacy scare but it will all work out!

Misty, I know he doesn't seem to be supportive but I suspect your husband is a lot like most of us guys and doesn't do well with this type of situation. It sounds like everyone has lots of good advice though and that's what counts. I wish you the best.

Be careful, you can't always trust the home pregnancy tests. There can be false negatives.

I think Razz's advice is wise, go to the hospital or doctor with your husband or a trusted friend and get tested, that way you can have a firm outcome so you can start making decisions that are in your best interest.

Good luck.

Acutally everytime I have ever been to the doctor and done a pregancy test it has been the same one I buy at the store. I asked the nurse about it and they said they don't do blood tests unless they have to..mostly because it is more expensive and insurance doesn't like to pay for it...

Thanks everyone. I made an emergency dr appt for tomorrow morning, they are going to do blood work and urin test. Im just so nervous. Im praying for a negative, but if it comes back as positive then i guess i just have to deal with it the best I can and hope the BP doesnt interfere too much with the pregnancy. I just have to remember to *BREATHE* and take it all in and go from there. Thank you all for your words of wisdom!

Good Luck tomorrow......