wow man ... I feel you. Don't worry about it. I think all of us think this way at one time or another. Amigo mio, usted es lo mejor

If you habla, no es una problema. If you don't, there's always babelfish. Dios le bendice. When you touch my heart in this way sometimes the real 'rican in me comes out.

Me too Chugger. We all do and say things we regret at times and then beat the shit out of ourselves over them.

So my apologies to all as well.

Argghhhhh! Mea Culpa!! I'm sorry too!! This is self-flagellation thread? Count me in :)

This is serious, guys. I have hurt 7 people and I don't know who, but I hurt them all the same. I've been called sociopathic because of my actions, it hurts me to know I've done this to anyone.

Count me in on being called sociopathic as well. My very first counselor back oh ... I want to say 30 years ago, dx'ed me as a sociopathic psychopath. I know it's serious.

I

Have


Been


Here


Too.

You are not alone in this.

Wow, Chuggs, I'm sorry. Have you got a therapist to discuss this with? That could be important-as is taking meds.
Understand you're trying to take responsibility for whatever happened...maybe give things time. It does hurt when we are accused of stuff-especially if our intentions were misinterpreted. I dunno, maybe try and get a little distance & yeah, work on getting help for your BP..don't let this undo you. Lou2 x (forgive me if this doesn't make sense, I think I'm asleep ;) ) xx

friends calling you sociopathic is a little different from being diagnosed one.

(((BIG HUGS))) It hurts when we think we have hurt someone. It is kind of like divorce in my mind...no one wins; not even the person who initiates the divorce walks away unscathed.

That's the problem, Grace, I didn't think I hurt anyone, but there are those who say I have all the same. with such a number, I must have fucked up some how.

youve never been anything but helpful and sweet to me :) Lightin up with these bastards , they just like to bitch. Your awesome

Chuggar, not everything is "about us." Sometimes we may post something that accidentally triggers someone. Or sometimes people just like to gang up on others--man's inhumanity to man...a blanket apology helps, but if these people have decided to crucify you, there is not much you can do to stop them except depend on support from the people who do not share their views.


Ignore" can go a long way towards protecting ourselves. Those people had the choice to use that feature but chose to attack you instead. Remember that.

We are supposed to be a loving, supportive AND forgiving community. If they cannot forgive, it is their problem.

Oh, if only I could take my own advice!! :)

I like you too!

That mean I'm not a Whore after all ?

LoL

I never take offence, where there's no sense there's no feeling :-)

You must focus on your intent...which has clearly been to be helpful, loving and supportive. If someone misinterpreted your words or actions then they need to step up and realize that THEY have erred. Show yourself some of the kindness that you show others...easy does it.

Oh honey, you are always so hard on yourself! lighten up! (lol, you would if you could, right?) From what I've seen, you HELP people, NOT hurt them. You are a wonderful man! If I could give you one thing it would be to recognize the good in yourself.
hugs