Bipolar Disorder Support Group
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Last night me and my boyfriend got in a bad fight. He hurt my feelings so bad I threw a tv changer. He spent the night anyway. I wrote him a myspace message while he was asleep, for him to read when he got home. It was a non hurtful letter telling him how he's been treating me and how it affects me. Now today, after he read it, he calls me saying everything is my fault. That I'm over opinionated, I never have or give good ideas on what to do (which I always give ideas), and tons of other attacking things. I asked him if we were breaking up... he said he didnt know. Mother fucker. I really can't take this.
Maybe when you both have calmed down some, you can talk about what happened and see if you can get better prepared for things next time.
Hope it works out. *hug*
My formor use to try to get me upset & to argue ( to justife his behavior & try to use me as an excuse for his doings ), Of course it was always my fault & he would twist things & turn them onto me, LOL.
I use to send him thank you cards when he would give me permission to go on vacation, to dance & go out to dinners with men. That's exactly whaat he gave me when he would ask me to leave &/or states that we shouldn't be together.I enjoyed road trips & 3 dys wk end on Canival cruise ships.
I refused to be his safety net. It will irritate me to hear him say that we should seprate & then say he doesn't know . latter is baiting a person.
i wait by ph for no one.
My formor & I didn't submite to who get the control & who to be submisive.
We both held the possion of control. ya like 2 rams butt heads & getting alone at the same time. the power play game, will, by 3rd yr - userly the male has gained postion of control. Enjoy the mind emotional game play.he can only play if you choose to play.
Want to see him grasp to hang on to & regain control. send yourself some flowers. Collect match books from diffrent resturants etc... or simply play the game.
Incaes you haven't heard. the best way to get over a man is to get under one. distance yourself, get your life & social life back or creat 1 for your own self, date an array of men ( I perfer meeting for lunch dates myself).
Leave him alone & more than likely when he sets his eyes on another he will leave you alone - vice versa.
When my formor & I seprated, ya I cried for a wk. I cried longer for my own self ( for yrs spent with him. yrs that I wasted can't get back) Then I reated a new activitys & gained my own friends etc... I fill my life & kept busy.
2 yrs after my divorce while out to dinner with my formor I wondered what in the ____ did I ever see in him.
Take care & be good to your self for yourself & for us on DS.