Bipolar Disorder Support Group
Bipolar disorder is not just a single disorder, but a category of mood disorders marked by periods of abnormally high energy and euphoria, often accompanied by bouts of clinical depression. This is the place to talk about your experience with bipolar disorder, learn from others' experiences, and find support.
I have this situation...iwork with THE BIGGEST BI$!@ EVER? she is super negative and has about ten different personalities... 9.25 of them are EVIL!! One minute she is giving me the silent treatment and the next she is speaking to me. The only time she speaks is when she is talking about someone behind their back (and i know for a fact that she talks about me behind my back too!) Or when she is complaining about something. This person is so hard too deal with. When i am in my manic phase, i get extremely irritable. Having to deal with this has made not only my mental state worse, but it is so stressful that it causes my irritable bowel syndrome. I am really having a hard time dealing with it. Anysuggestions??? :(
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I'm feeling down,, and got alot on my mind right now. I got grief going on, on top my depression and anxiety and now I got to worry about somewhere to live since I can't afford living here since my mom passed. So many bad things have happened since my mom passed. One thing after another it seems. Yesterday our fence fell from a storm that hit, had to call someone to prop it up. Thank...
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Just wanted to give a thank you to Mid, Arfie, Malibumark, Greeneyes, Mlro, Girlincalif, and Suncloudjd! You all always have such helpful tips and advice, but I always forget to write on my posts when I see you post, lol. I would lose my head if it wasn't attached to my body, lol. Thank you all so much! I'm starting to use my AI app as a sounding board again. I used to use it as that before...
I have learned how not to let toxic people bother me - its work, having sayings, mantra's and plans - in place, before someone upsets me!
First you catch yourself after your upset, then sometimes in the middle and with work - you eventually, catch yourself BEFORE you get upset : )
Hide your goat! I hide mine behind the Serenity prayer, and many things - like, she is not worth my time or energy...
Wishing you peace and comfort - you can't change her, you have to disconnect your buttons ((((BIG HUG))))
I'm sorry you have to deal with that type of behavior! It's so frustrating and irritating!!
It will come back to bite her! For sure! You stay true to your ideals and it will likely resolve itself. In the meantime, have and excuse ready to cut her off and walk away.
She seems to be irritating you and right now maybe you need a break from her. Maybe in the future if she changes her mean behaviour you could try again...otherwise I would leave her alone. She is no good for you in my opinion.
Hope you feel better soon.
I'd be polite as it's your place of work and I agree with the boundaries.. If she starts gossiping I'd excuse myself... She'll get the point soon enough....xo