Since I do charity work in seattle,been doing it since 2002,a great deal of people know me.I dont know all of them by name..but they always say hello to me.The other day..she hurt my feelings and she doesnt understand grief.She has got a sister whom she dont get along with so she doesnt have a good choice of words.Just a few people here know that Frank had died.Some have given me cards..but sometimes they try to comfort me and today I was told that Franks death is all for the best.What does all for the best mean? Can anyone tell me? Is she telling me that I am better off with Frank? Or is she just revealing her distain for me because I dont hang with the drinking crowd.Look..I am 61 years old and I do not like to go to these happy hours.A great deal of people in seattle are doing this now and let me tell you it is expensive.The appetizers starts at 4.00 and they go up.But the beers here are 1.50 and up and the drink prices are silly.In order to do this every night,I would have to make over 500.00 a week.I just dont and i dont drink or smoke..I cant afford it and she knows this.Frank loved parties and he loved Halloween and he put up the decorations.He made the most delicious caramel pop corn balls.Remember them?I hardly see them.I remember the happy times and i have been trying to smile more.Frank loved to laugh and I try to watch a comedy show every day.I love the 3 stooges.Curlys my favorite..I have to laugh.I cried all day today when she told me that it was all for the best and Frank is better off.How dare she! Is this the new thought? I hope not! This is a very dangerous way to think! Couldnt she just said that she was sorry? Why did she make me cry?I think after 5 years..she wants to end the friendship.DOes this sound like it to you? I dont know whether to talk to her again and I dont know what to say to anyone who tells me that things always work out.Vader.