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Why does it hurt so much

JullD
JullD

May coming it will be two years since my husband passed. Why does it still hurt like the day It happen. Sunday coming would have been his 44th  birthday. I can't stop thinking about him and reflecting. I thought I was getting better but seems like am regressing.

Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Welcome Jull.....I am so very sorry for your loss..... I think anniversaries often take us back to how much we miss someone and how painful it's been to lose them
If it still feels like the day you lost him sweetie you might want to see a doctor.... The loss and grief may have triggered a depression and you can get some help for that
We also have a very good and active Widows and Widowers board on here ... People are in different stages of healing and they are very supportive
DS is a great site.... I'm glad you found us.... Big hug and a blessing.....xo

Widows and Widowers Board

https://www.dailystrength.org/group/widows-widowers
Cherish2017
Cherish2017
Hi JullD, the comments above are so lovely, I imagine that you will find a lot of comfort from people who understand and who have walked on a similar path. I have recently lost my parents, and it must be a different kind of hurt and missing from your beloved.
Thank you for reaching out to this group. Blessings on you.
ComplicatedGrief
ComplicatedGrief
Hi. Im sos sorry you feel like you're regressing. Often when grief lasts for longer than usual its known as complicated grief and needs treatment to move through whatever it is that is stopping you from healing. My mum passed 11 years ago and I'm still experiencing extreme pain and grief. I hope you feel a lot better. Noone ahould have to go through this pain and yet we all do!!
Much love
typewriter
typewriter
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband recently. I understand how your feeling. My feelings are up and down on a daily basis. One minute I am o.k. and the next thing I start crying. What I am learning is to surround yourself with people who care and who will listen.
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