Bereavement Support Group

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bluesprofessor
bluesprofessor
My mother was brutally murderd december 15 2006. You have no idea anything like that and you do not wish to know what it like
barbarame
barbarame
We cannot know, but we do understand loss and grief, and we are therefore here for you ((GENTLE HUGS))
deleted_user
deleted_user
my 14yr old grandson was murdered on Aug 29, 2012. His father shot him and than shot himself. I am not sure if our family will ever be the same. We miss my grandson so much and there was no reason for him to be killed. We cannot understand why??
deleted_user
deleted_user
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deleted_user
deleted_user
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deleted_user
deleted_user
I HV RD UR PST SVRL TIMS, D M DIRT MTIS HV CM VR M THT PUSHD M T SKIP RPL. HVR I ULD S T U THT THIS IS T HLL, D THT THR IS MUCH UT LT I THIS RLD SUCH S TH LV U D UR MTHR SHRD. IT IS I IR TH UR MTHR DID, D PRSS TRDGIC LSS IS TH SM UT ITHR IS S LSS LSS PIUL, TH PRS RSPSL R UR MTHRS DTH DSRVS DTH I RTUR, I M SRR R UR LSS, D I HP U C ID SM SMLC PIC HR RTH.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I HV RD UR PST SVRL TIMS, D M DIRT MTIS HV CM VR M THT PUSHD M T SKIP RPL. HVR I ULD S T U THT THIS IS T HLL, D THT THR IS MUCH UT LT I THIS RLD SUCH S TH LV U D UR MTHR SHRD. IT IS I IR TH UR MTHR DID, D PRSS TRDGIC LSS IS TH SM UT ITHR IS S LSS LSS PIUL, TH PRS RSPSL R UR MTHRS DTH DSRVS DTH I RTUR, I M SRR R UR LSS, D I HP U C ID SM SMLC PIC HR RTH.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I HV RD UR PST SVRL TIMS, D M DIRT MTIS HV CM VR M THT PUSHD M T SKIP RPL. HVR I ULD S T U THT THIS IS T HLL, D THT THR IS MUCH UT LT I THIS RLD SUCH S TH LV U D UR MTHR SHRD. IT IS I IR TH UR MTHR DID, D PRSS TRDGIC LSS IS TH SM UT ITHR IS S LSS LSS PIUL, TH PRS RSPSL R UR MTHRS DTH DSRVS DTH I RTUR, I M SRR R UR LSS, D I HP U C ID SM SMLC PIC HR RTH.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I HV RD UR PST SVRL TIMS, D M DIRT MTIS HV CM VR M THT PUSHD M T SKIP RPL. HVR I ULD S T U THT THIS IS T HLL, D THT THR IS MUCH UT LT I THIS RLD SUCH S TH LV U D UR MTHR SHRD. IT IS I IR TH UR MTHR DID, D PRSS TRDGIC LSS IS TH SM UT ITHR IS S LSS LSS PIUL, TH PRS RSPSL R UR MTHRS DTH DSRVS DTH I RTUR, I M SRR R UR LSS, D I HP U C ID SM SMLC PIC HR RTH.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I HV RD UR PST SVRL TIMS, D M DIRT MTIS HV CM VR M THT PUSHD M T SKIP RPL. HVR I ULD S T U THT THIS IS T HLL, D THT THR IS MUCH UT LT I THIS RLD SUCH S TH LV U D UR MTHR SHRD. IT IS I IR TH UR MTHR DID, D PRSS TRDGIC LSS IS TH SM UT ITHR IS S LSS LSS PIUL, TH PRS RSPSL R UR MTHRS DTH DSRVS DTH I RTUR, I M SRR R UR LSS, D I HP U C ID SM SMLC PIC HR RTH.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I HV RD UR PST SVRL TIMS, D M DIRT MTIS HV CM VR M THT PUSHD M T SKIP RPL. HVR I ULD S T U THT THIS IS T HLL, D THT THR IS MUCH UT LT I THIS RLD SUCH S TH LV U D UR MTHR SHRD. IT IS I IR TH UR MTHR DID, D PRSS TRDGIC LSS IS TH SM UT ITHR IS S LSS LSS PIUL, TH PRS RSPSL R UR MTHRS DTH DSRVS DTH I RTUR, I M SRR R UR LSS, D I HP U C ID SM SMLC PIC HR RTH.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I HV RD UR PST SVRL TIMS, D M DIRT MTIS HV CM VR M THT PUSHD M T SKIP RPL. HVR I ULD S T U THT THIS IS T HLL, D THT THR IS MUCH UT LT I THIS RLD SUCH S TH LV U D UR MTHR SHRD. IT IS I IR TH UR MTHR DID, D PRSS TRDGIC LSS IS TH SM UT ITHR IS S LSS LSS PIUL, TH PRS RSPSL R UR MTHRS DTH DSRVS DTH I RTUR, I M SRR R UR LSS, D I HP U C ID SM SMLC PIC HR RTH.
vader
vader
my name is vader.I am 65 years old and old enough to be your grandmother.I cannot know at at all,but I am here for you.
koolman
koolman
You're right. I can't know nor do I want to know what that is like. But I watched my brother die, dwindle down to nothing, of cancer and sepsis, right before my very eyes, and my mind didn't want to accept what my eyes were seeing.

Not to negate what a horrible thing murder is, but no death is pretty, and I'm sure we all know that black pit of hell feeling you're facing. If it's any consolation, I've learned to SMILE into the face of hell, even enjoy it. And I like to exercise like a motherfucker. It helps me push through the black pit of hell and push beyond it.

Perhaps you'll find your own way, of looking into that gaping, deep black hole, within yourself. We're here for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
One of my best friends killed herself last year. She had MS & I think she did not want anyone to have to take care of her when that time came around. Who knows?! I miss her so much! We were also coworkers. She was someone I could talk to about anything. If she were here now I know she would be so helpful w/ the grief I am going thru for Mom passing a month ago. We hugged each other everyday for no reason. That is how we greated each other. She is at peace now but has left a hole in my heart. Why did she think she had to go so soon. she was only 47. My heart goes out to you I cannot imagine your feelings!