Thinking of you and feeling your pain!

Hi, I'm so sorry about your loss and trying to deal with a bday so soon. I'm grieving the loss of my Dad and I am an only child. So I just wanted to say that I know how special the bond is between parent and child when it's an only child. I am lost without my Dad,I am only 35,life feels too long without him but i adored my life with him and I adore my Mom. I hope everyday the bond is just changed,not broken,there is too much love for it to be gone.

I hope you find peace and I hope you know how special you are to her and what a priviledge it is being an only child. I hope she's watching over you still loving you everyday

hugs from a lost Daddys one and only,x

I am so sorry for your loss!!! I mostly don't answer the posts about child loss, 'cause I know it's one of the greatest losses possible. I don't even have enough words to express how sorry I am.

Your loss is so recent, you must be feeling lost right now. My suggestions...cry as much as you can, crying eases the pain. Feeling angry, guilty...are all normal.

I lost my mom this February. I am also an only child and my 30th b'day is in a month. I can't even begin to imagine what my mom would have done, had I died instead of her.

My thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. Wish you some peace...take care

I am so truly sorry for your loss. Gentle hugs,Christine

Thank you all so much......I feel so bad for all of the losses that we have suffered that brings us together, but so glad that we are here for one another.

I got a call from my former boss today (she had to let me go because I needed the time off to be at the hospital with my daughter) and she was chatting away as if I had been away on vacation for a couple of weeks. She never mentioned Sarah by name or asked about anything that we had been through.

I am so very sorry for your loss...I can't imagine the pain in losing a child...losing my husband was so very painful. I just wanted to thank you for the fact that your daughter's organs were donated. My husband was on a transplant list for a liver for 10 months and was removed because his cancer returned and he battled liver cancer for a year and half before he finally lost the battle. Knowing your daughter saved the lives of others must help in some small way....thank you and my prayers are with you..

I am very very sorry for your loss. I lost a 37 year old son in 2005. He died instantly from a car wreck. I never got to say goodbye or I love you, one last time. I have lost many loved ones, half-brothers, half-sisters, brother-in-laws, my parents but, losing my son was the hardest thing i have ever endured. I visit his grave and accident site every year on the anniversary of his death. I kneel and pray at both sites. It makes me feel closer to him. He was divorced and left 3 children behind. It seems like yesterday and I still grieve for him. I understand your pain and your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I am very sorry for your loss. I, too lost my son on November 5 of 2009. I wanted to let you know that within Daily Strength there is a group ForMomsOnly. Please, join us if you haven't already. You will find the greatest support and comfort with the moms there. This group is for women who have lost their adult children. Sending caring thoughts your way.
Peggy

I know only too well the pain you are in. My son had just turned 30 and died from a diabetic coma on Dec 25 2007. It is the worst kind of pain and for you to lose your only child is just unimaginable. If you ever want to talk, just message me. In the meantime, I will pray for you and know I care. Roselle

God is with us through the storm...I have learned this through many tough situations but none more tougher than losing my son...my youngest...to suicide last year. My heart aches for you.....DS is a very "soft place to land" indeed.....love and hugs, dale...brandon's mom