Bereavement Support Group
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I feel a lot better and this is because of this fantastic group.The people are the most wonderful and I know that I will survive.Brad is the last guy that I ever will date.Guys...I am 61 years old and I am no spring chicken..But I would like to enjoy some of my retirement and being in a relationship just stiffles me.I heard from my old boyfriend.He is a widower now with 9 children,15 grandchildren and children still at home.And when I met them...they are the most uncontrollable children I have even seen.He has got no control over them and it shows...enough said.Brad and I tried to have children.It didnt work out and I have got 4 niece,9 great nieces and nephews.My great nephew was born on my birthday,October 5th,1991..he will be 18 and he is a fine young man.enough said....but lets return to Brad...Brad had always very serious problems and I have noticed that they were growing.He could not have a conversation and when I talked..he would tell me to shut up...Brad didnt like to talk and I should have left him years ago when I first noticed this.Guys..if you are shy...please do me a favor...please do not come to seattle.Your shyness doesnt walk in your favor because you stiffle relationship..so please dont try to be my boyfriend...ok? As for music..if you dont like music or sing or collect sheet music...please dont get angry when I practice my vocal exervises..okay? Secondly...please have interests..Brad had no interests..All Brad had was gold...the car and the cats...he was going everywhere with me and I felt smothered...Brad had no real friends.And he was always alone.I began to wonder why.Here is what I found out and here is my message..PHOEBE..THIS FOR YOU.I HOPE THAT YOU ARE SATIFISED.BRAD IS DEAD AND I BLAME PART OF IT ON YOU BECAUSE YOU STUCK YOUR FACE IN HIS TREATMENT BY GIVING HIM ALL THESE STUPID IDEAS ABOUT VITAMINS AND SUCH.HE WASNT TAKING HIS MEDICATION.HE NEEDED LITHIUM..BUT YOU TOLD HIM NOT TO TAKE IT..JUST WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?
there is a word that us Italian women have and it begins with "W".PHOEBE...THERE WILL BE NO BURIAL.BRAD WILL BE CREMATED.HE LEFT ME NO WILL.I DONT HAVE A LIVING WILL.HE LEFT MONEY FOR 2 MONTHS RENTS.AFter 2 months..I will have nothing.....are you happy? But guess what? I am getting help already and I am not leaving this house.You are not welcomed here..so dont you even think of coming over.Because I will call the Seattle Police..the sheriff..his brothers and you my dear will be in the back of the police car and I will take out a restraing order..you havent talked to Brad.Your mission has been accompilised.Brad planned his suicide.Thanks to you and your meddling.And I will never forgive you...dom me a favor...drop dead...literally..I have been through hlllllllllllthanks to you.I found his body.He slit his wrists and guess what? If I was up..Brad would have killed me and this is what he had planned..but I intend to live to 109 like the lady in the news and you my dear will be six feet under..so Phoebe...dont even call me....Understand?Do you know that my brother was coming to take us out? How dare you?????How dare you//////and you chat line sucks......
there is a word that us Italian women have and it begins with "W".PHOEBE...THERE WILL BE NO BURIAL.BRAD WILL BE CREMATED.HE LEFT ME NO WILL.I DONT HAVE A LIVING WILL.HE LEFT MONEY FOR 2 MONTHS RENTS.AFter 2 months..I will have nothing.....are you happy? But guess what? I am getting help already and I am not leaving this house.You are not welcomed here..so dont you even think of coming over.Because I will call the Seattle Police..the sheriff..his brothers and you my dear will be in the back of the police car and I will take out a restraing order..you havent talked to Brad.Your mission has been accompilised.Brad planned his suicide.Thanks to you and your meddling.And I will never forgive you...dom me a favor...drop dead...literally..I have been through hlllllllllllthanks to you.I found his body.He slit his wrists and guess what? If I was up..Brad would have killed me and this is what he had planned..but I intend to live to 109 like the lady in the news and you my dear will be six feet under..so Phoebe...dont even call me....Understand?Do you know that my brother was coming to take us out? How dare you?????How dare you//////and you chat line sucks......
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Vader,I have no idea what all is going on or has gone on. I do not have any need to know. I am just here to care about you and to help you through this awful time of pain and grief in your life. I can also feel alot of anger her in you, and that is also a part of grief for many of us. The good thing about DS is you can tell as little as you want or as much as you want. I am here to listen. I am also here to share my experiences with you is you wish to hear them. I just want to remind you that I care about you and what happens to you. I want to be here and be a friend if you wish it to be so. I any case, remember that even in the deepest and darkest place there is always a little light, and a little hope. I wish to help you towards this. It is early inyour trip, You are at the beginning of the road. It is lonf and bumpy and hard. It is also like a roller coaster or a run away train. I also kind of think of it as riding a bicycle blind. I read a book about the great man and singer Ray Charles. He did ride a bicycle blind by following the sounds of th othe kids. He also couls shave himself. I think of that when I am feeling like I am groping along in the darkness alone. Vader you do not have to do this alone. You can write to me about your anger and your love and your feelings what ever they are. You tell me only what you wish. I will answer about my life and losses honestly and openly. I will hold you in thoughts and prayers. Remember if you come to DS you will not ever be alone. This is a place that helped to save me. Love,Peggy
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