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The white kitten what does it mean?

vader
vader
Like i stated on Monday it will be one month since I lost Brad.But I have to share with you all this experience because it happened last night and sophie doesnt believe me.It was 4 o clock in the morning.I heard a cats meow.The strays come to my porch and others here because we feed them and then I heard another meow.I went into the kitchen and prepared my cats dishes for the day.Kramer has always eaten this late cause he gets up early.I heard the cats meow again. I took a cup of dry food and I opened the door.AS i opened the door...I heard another meow! Sitting on the chair was a little kitten....and I could tell that it wasnt from any of my cats.The kitten was all white and it has blue eyes.It was meowing
so I decided to feed it..i put the food down and this kitten eat 3 bowls .She was really hungry.Then after she eat...she licked my face and hand.Then she jumped out and into the street.She ran across the street because something frigtened her.It is saturday.I asked about the kitten..THERE HAVE BEEN NO KITTENS ON THETHIS BLOCK FOR ONE YEAR.......WHAT DOES IT MEAN/AM I GOING CRAZY///WHOSE CAT WAS IT///NOONE KN OWS...MY NEIGHBORS HAVE PIT BULLS AND GERMAN SHEPARDS BUT CO CATS...AND i DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY OR DO...NOONE BELIEVES ME ABOUT THIS KITTEN.i SAW IT...IT IS REAL.DO YOU THINK BRAD HAS SENT ME A SIGN LIKE HE PROMISED/
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I believe that, yes, that little white kitten is a gift from Brad. These gifts are fleeting, but powerful reminders that our loved ones are still with us giving us comfort. I have experienced similar gifts as well. Good for you and that lucky little kitten :) !!
Best,
Judy
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Being a Chaplain I have seen many different signs....Give it all the love you have
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Yes I believe you have recieved a sign . Sometimes I thinkthese kinds of signs come to us in our waking hours , sometimes they come in dreams. I have had some strange experiences with the alarm clock going off in my sons room the same time every am 0610 several days after he died it kept going off like that even though we kept turning off the alarm.I dont know what it means though Maybe somedaywe wil get the answers
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what a sweet sign. I think he is telling you he made it wherever he is going.

I have had strange signs too. It does not matter if others believe you - you know they are true, that is all that matters
vader
vader
to all whon replied.That little kitten hasnt come back.But I will never forget her and I do believe it was a sign from Brad telling me thatn he made it to the other side.Thanks to all.Vader.
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For sure it was a sign from Brad! How wonderful for you! Try to take comfort in the fact that it came to YOU!! God Bless you1
Judy

Hey, check out the group on DS called "Hello from Heaven"--you might enjoy it!
PJsmom
PJsmom
Absolutly, I believe this was a sign from Brad. I think he's letting you know he's ok. It was 8 days after PJ commited suicide and I had gone to town to mail some packages, when I got home there was a message on my answering machine. I couldn't believe what I heard and had to listen to it like 20 times and at top volume, and it said "hey mom", that's how PJ used to answer me when I would call him! So believe, they are with us and do find ways of letting us know. I'm so happy for you and keep looking, you'll find them.
Love, Bev
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Yes, definitely believe that it is a sign from Brad to let you know he is still with you & watching over you. My husband died in July of 2007. We always had hummingbird feeders but didn't see any in the summer, saw them in the fall. The next day after he died, I got up that morning and while putting coffee on, I happened to glance at the feeders, and there was a hummingbird. I have had other little signs that he is still stopping by to check on me. Seems they all involve birds. He was a big bird lover. So, I will tell you to believe and don't let anyone tell you any different!!
If you ever need to talk, send me a message.
smurfette1
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Wish I could feel so sure as you do - about my Mom. I've had two experiences of "scent" in her bedroom (now mine). The second time (a few weeks ago) was her dusting powder, which is still in the room but never used. I smelled it twice - once during the night when I called out, "is that you Mama?" - the second time lasted awhile. I kept trying to justify the how's and why's of it all. But knowing Mama, I'm not sure if she wouldn't give me something more solid to know if she were there.

I hope this gave you peace. That little kitten was more than grateful for your kindness - and unafraid to acknowledge it.
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No matter what people tell you, believe your instinct. Mine was during the hurricane of 2004,I was all alone in a flooded house. I had to put all familynalbums in a top shelf in the garage. There was no way I could do it by myself. Tool heavy stuff and I have problem with my left arm. Surprisingly, I did it like someone helping me put them all up on the top shelf. I suddenly remembered my son who used to help me a lot with heavy housework.I was sure he was with me.
vader
vader
to all the stray cats that I feed just gave birth...She gave birth under neath my house..The kittens are so cute and i do intend to take care of them because I am I promised Brad....And guess what? Brad found a very sick raccoon and he did something he wasnt suppose to do.He took the raccoon into the garage and was nursing it back to health.He fed this raccoon..Readers..guess what? Yesterday at 9 o clock in the morning.I heard a noise...I was walking up the cross walk..out of nowhere came 2 raccoons and they corned me...and one of them let out a scream..I ran into the house...I looked outside...they were on there hind legs..they were begging.It was the mother raccoon...so i fed the both of them.then they went away..but what would anyone do? I dont know if brad commited a crime tending to a sick raccoon.but they come around and they are huge..the mother raccoon just had babies...and one day....i heard kramer scream...i went into the kitchen..THERE WERE SEVEN RACCOONS.THEY WERE EATING ALL OF THE CATS FOOD AND I HAD A PIECE OF PIZZA THAT I HAD JUST BROUGHT..GUESS WHAT? oNE OF THESE ANIMALS JUMPED ON THE COUNTER...GOT THE PIECE OF PIZZA AND RAN OUT INTO THE YARD AND THEN ALL OF THEM DEVOURED IT...QUESTION...WHO DO I GO TO ABOUT THIS PROBLEM? i HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF bRADS BUSINESS UNTIL THE END OF THE MONTH OF JULY..BUT THIS IS PROBLEM.=CAN ANYONE ADVISE ME?
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I know it was a sign from you husband, i have had 2 signs and it brings comfert to me. take peace in it.
vader
vader
yes,i do agree.it was a sign from to check up on me and I feel a bit better.I have to do things for my self.It is the 4th of July and things are going to be hectic.Have a safe 4th...from vader and the cats..
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Vader, do you have a Humane Society there? Because they can help you to trap them and then relocate them.
Stop feeding them,..they could carry rabies, roundworm, and you have to protect your cats or you could get them sick. Good luck! Judy
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I agree it was a sign that he is still watching over you... My brother-in-law ans sister had matching tatoos of lady bugs for their oldest daughter and we have seen ladybugs now in the weirdest places. My sister woke up one morning and her house was covered in them, when my oldest niece was hosptalized we watched one climbing up the wall of her hospital room. I believe our loved ones are still watching us and guiding us we just have to be open for the digns.