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First of all,I want to apologize for not getting in contact with everyone sooner.I am a bell ringer for the Salvation Army and I had to watch it this year.They switched my location and I was told that they did not want me back and this location I was at 4 years.It has something to do with the new management there and all I can say..please do me a favor and go jump in a lake!But I had 3 experiences and I am a bit scared.I found a Magic 8 bowl in my late brothers possessions.Underneath it was a few questions and it looked harmless.As I picked up this magic 8 ball..I asked it this question..How long will I live..The Magic 8 told me and a few others that I would be dead within two years and I would be killed in a car accident.I dropped the bowl and I havent looked at it since.This has happened to Sophie also.Can these litte balls predict when you are going to die? Noone knows but since i was 14,I have been doing my astrology charts.I also give readings and things like this..but I have been so busy with working.I called one of these psychic lines on tv and it cost me 350.00! She told me that I would be hurt soon and to be careful about cars..because I could be a static.Ever since then..I dont go to these people.You see..I do them myself..something has happened here which I cant tell and I am having difficulty believing in God and the hereafter.But the ball told me that I wouldnt live past the age of 65..and here I am..I dont know what to do! Someone told me to throw the ball out and dont touch it no more.But what you do if something told you that you will die soon?
I mean I know what you're saying because you did it already and the ball and physic gave you something to think about but really I woulnd't go botting my brains over it:)
Crazy 8 balls do not tell the furture; they are used as fun (a toy); I have used these in the past...and the answers to the questions I asked...did not come true; I would not be writing you if it had.
When you called the expensive psychic what all did you say? I would guess that the majority of accidents are caused my cars..., so this "psychic" could have very well pulled this "thought" out of her hat.
How did you ask the 8 ball about the years? There are no #'s on the little triangle thing.
I am sorry for your loss.
I have read books written by Sylvia Brown(e); her books may help you figure things out. Like your questioning of the hereafter & etc.
Do you know that you could die crossing the street? Breathing smoke? Eating the wrong food? etc. To think that one is going to die, because of a ball...you need to change your thinking. I know that it is easier said then done; but with the mind set that you are in now...could lead to serious problems: like nervous problems, heart/stroke problems, and high blood pressure. If you don't have those already.
I hope I did not sound harsh...if I did...sorry.
Just a thought...dig a hole and bury it; and place some salt all the way around where you dug.
I too have talked to a psychic...this one only cost me $20 (half an hour)-$40 (hour); I met her when she moved in to the apt. complex. She helped with my mom's death, and my dad showed up too...she described him to a tee.
I hope this helped you in some way.
Good Luck.
Remember you are in the process of grief; there is no time line in when your grief stops; if it ever does.
You will get to feeling better; it just takes time.
"But what would you do if something told you that you will die soon?"
Initially I too would probably panic a little bit, then I would live my life as if today may be my last. Meaning ~ I would love deeply, tell those I love that I love them ~ be kind to all ~ do the things that I enjoy ~ not let the little aggravation in life aggravate me so much ~ hug my kid a little tighter ~ make memories ~ laugh so hard that my belly hurts ~ dance in a rain storm ~ for doing these things will make the life we are currently living just that much more enjoyable!
And when the time comes that God calls us home ~ we will go and leave behind memories for our loved ones that will make them smile even during the harder times!!!
Varder ~ please live in the present and not worry about your passing ~ as sure as we are born we too will die ~ it's what we do in between that matters! Don't spend the rest of your days here on this journey worrying about the next journey!
Please slow down, take deep cleansing breaths (sometime a whole lot of them help me : ) and enjoy the now!
God bless you and may the angles surround you and comfort you !