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Brad never believed in astrology.Nor did he believe in ghosts.Brad always told me that there was no evidence that the spirits of departed people haunt the living.But I have to tell everyone since he died...2 weeks ago..I FEEL SPOOKED.AND EVERY FRIDAY..I SEE THE GHOST WHISPERER.WHAT DOES THIS MEAN? The first thing that happened is that the dish washer went out all by itself again.I used to think that this was Franks doing..but the dish washer went on by itself 3 times.The 2nd thing...Brad build a workshop.Brad loved tools.Hasnt anyone ever noticed that men like to talk about tools? That if you go to Sears...all of the men are in the hardward department discussing saws and like.It is like Home Improvement.Men like tools.Well,Brad told me never to go into his work shop.I went today because I had to see that my music was still there and it was...and when I came back to my room...the statue of Merlin moved again.....why? But the biggest thing that scares me is this...my cats are staring at something or someone that aint there.Little Tooey meowed for 5 minutes today and she was looking at this space.I saw it...there is nothing there....and tooey just saw there looking...who is there? But today I walked into his room and I havent been there...The old Italians believe in these shrines.I havent touched anything in Brads room.It is exactly the way that it was.It is just waiting for him to return and the cars are still outside.We believe if you touch something like this...that the spirit of the person wont rest.I want Brad to rest...and when I went into his room...i heard :"Honey...Honey," when he was drunk...he called me this...Brad left me no note and no explanation.But I have got money for 3 -4 months.I cant leave this house.I have got no place to go.And that is the truth.I have got zillions of stuff...we both did..but Brad and I were at end because I collect memorbilla.I only collect on certain people and I dont go to these conventions..and who is Oprahs guests telling the audience to threw some of the stuff out? Well.if any man./woman throws out anything that I have on The Beatles,Or Elvis Presley...I will personally take his/her clothes and threw it in the street.What I collect is my concern and it is my business...and if you dont collect and dont believe it...zip it! Dont try to tell me what I have is junk...an Elvis Presley record just sold for 50,00. so put that in your pipe and smoke it...and try not to interest me in the matters of the house...please I am not going to Bed and Bath just for you because I like to do what I like now and I am not going to waste my time doing what you like.Brads spirit taught me so much and I will miss him..but I am determined to stay in this house...I have nowhere to go....
From my point of view, what you are experiencing is normal. I have had many, many signs from my Jamie (suicide, also) I found comfort in them because they proved that he survived. Love never dies!
Check out the other DS group called "Hello from Heaven" and you will find many have similar experiences. they are not to be feared, they have no way to hurt you. Most of the time, they just want to reassure you that they are okay.
You have no reason to be defensive about your belongings! I sooo understand! Especially about Elvis (smile) I had 58 pix of him in my bedroom as a teenager, and have been to Graceland 8X!!! He was soooo special! We all have the things that mean the world to us, but probably would be somebody else's "junk"--that's what makes people so interesting, individual, and special. God's Blessings to you! Judy