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Tomorrow is August 1st.It will be 6 years that I lost my beloved Frank and noone told me that this pain does continue.The minister told me that "it gets better in time." Does what get better? How I am I doing? Please do not ask.As I am behind in the rent and I am one step of being evicted.I dont have the funds for the rent and I dont know where to begin.The churches in seattle only help once and I went for legal councel.The lawyer told me to pay something and tell him about my bad luck.I hurt my leg on June 6th and I have been in time every since then.On the 8th of June I went to the emergency room and x rays were taken.They said it was a bad strain and I am walking with a cane.Right now..I am very disabled and i cant get a job.I cant stand for a long period of time and even when I sit I get up in pain.But this pain is nothing like I pain when i received that phone call.Stanley called me at 12 o clock PST and told me that Frankie died.Frankie died in his bed at the nursing home and just came home from the hospital.Couldnt the hospital do something for him? FRANK DIED OF HEART FAILURE.AND NOONE PICKED THIS UP.I FEEL LIKE SUING.Every Tuesday Frank would call me and he would discuss the Yankess.He would discuss all of his problems with me and we were real close.But before he died he said this>"Vader...I dont have
much time.I AM NOT GOING TO MAKE IT THIS TIME.BUT AS A FAVOR TO ME PLEASE LEAVE BRAD FOR IF YOU DONT YOU WILL HAVE SORROW.' FRANK TOLD ME THIS IN JULY OF 2004.BRADS DEATH WAS MAY 22ND,2009.DId my FRANK HAVE AN OMEN ? i THINK SO.AND TODAY i AWOKE AND GUESS WHAT? i CRIED.I have been crying all day.The other day I was at the bus station waiting for the bus and I throw up all of my lunch.Grief is a black emotion.It is to me sheer evil.I cant shake this feeling.But the pain for me will never go away.On July 20th,my little cat Tooey died in my arms.She was 11 and I buried her in the yard and i visit the grave everyday.Frank and Tooey were all i had and I will never forget them and the 9th step of Emotion ANonymous is to apologize if your words and actions have hurt and offended people and I apologize.
much time.I AM NOT GOING TO MAKE IT THIS TIME.BUT AS A FAVOR TO ME PLEASE LEAVE BRAD FOR IF YOU DONT YOU WILL HAVE SORROW.' FRANK TOLD ME THIS IN JULY OF 2004.BRADS DEATH WAS MAY 22ND,2009.DId my FRANK HAVE AN OMEN ? i THINK SO.AND TODAY i AWOKE AND GUESS WHAT? i CRIED.I have been crying all day.The other day I was at the bus station waiting for the bus and I throw up all of my lunch.Grief is a black emotion.It is to me sheer evil.I cant shake this feeling.But the pain for me will never go away.On July 20th,my little cat Tooey died in my arms.She was 11 and I buried her in the yard and i visit the grave everyday.Frank and Tooey were all i had and I will never forget them and the 9th step of Emotion ANonymous is to apologize if your words and actions have hurt and offended people and I apologize.
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Dear dear Vader, I wish I were closer to you - again, I beg you to email me your address shop26@live.com - please put Vader in the subject line so I will not accidently delete it. I know there is something in your area I can find for you or let me say this - there have been many people who thought there was no help and I was able to find help. Have you applied for disability insurance? If not, I can help you with that also. I applied and did much research to make it as painless as possible. I may have just gotten lucky, but I was approved on my first try in less than 3 months. It takes six months to actually get your first check so that is really good. Now for your pain, how can one heal from emotional pain when they are in such phyical pain? Hang in there - we are all pulling for you. There is a way - we just have to find it! Hang on friend!
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