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Sudden death if husband

Rhondafaye42
Rhondafaye42
I'm not sure where to start but my husband has been gone for 2 months and we were married for 25 years and I can't go on. I keep saying I'm taking it one day at a time and that I will get better with time but I'm just walking around in a daze and I don't know what to do. I'm tired of crying everyday. I never new a persons heart and soul could hurt and long so badly. Any advise to make it through another day will be greatly appreciated.

Rhonda
Patriciavara
Patriciavara
I am so sorry for your loss. First of all, it is good you are reaching out to others here. You could look into a grief support group or counselor. I found a group at the hospital where my husband was a patient, before he died in July. I have only been once, but I plan to go on Monday. You may have some grief support through his work or yours. I have heard employers offer so many free visits. One last suggestion is finding someone through a church. Hugs! Patricia
deleted_user
deleted_user
So very sorry for your loss...there are no words to express how hard it is or the depth of it...

Twenty five years is a long time...two months is not along time in the process of grief...feelings, changes & adjustments go on for years...they change but there are many stages.

When I lost my brother the world stopped for me...everyone else just went on with their lives while I stayed still...the world / life goes fast while our pain goes slowly.

Wishing you peace and time to heal.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my fianc 18 months ago. We were best friends for over 20 years. Everyone has a different way of grieving and there are no time limits or ways to feel....you just have to go with it and draw close to God. I didn't think I could survive the pain but I am....it still hurts, I still cry but I've learned to see my blessings and find good moments. As far off and impossible as it seems, you will too. Give yourself time and take all the time you need.

God bless you
Squeege
Squeege
i just head out the door and start running and walking til i'm so exhausted i go home and pass out. It's not a long term solution but it helps me
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm so sorry, I can relate. I was married 30 years to the love of my life. He dies 4.5 months ago, suddenly. I'am beyond devastated.. I try to keep busy. I have a big support system. But at the end of the day, I'm alone and the loneliness is unbearable. I'am angry, bitter, sad, miserable. I keep saying WHY???? I just cannot comprehend it. Ive become friends with 3 other women going through the same thing. We all feel exactly alikeI pray that we all heal.. soon.. its just unbearable living like this.