I am so sorry for the loss and pain you are enduring. I know how you feel I also lost my mom and dad. Dad passed in 2002 and mom in 2004.
Know you are not alone and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless

My god. I am so sorry. Was this recent? How is it a 16 year old has custody of siblings? I would think state DHS would step in and provide foster home(?) You are very brave and noble to try and raise them but you will need help. And help for your grief as well.

I don't know where you live but if you are providing care for your younger siblings and in the USA, you are entitled to State financial aid as well as State funded health insurance through the Medicaid system. Go to social services and be persistent until you get all the facts. Food stamps, help with utilities, health insurance (all minors under the poverty line are entitled to free health insurance that pays 100% of everything) and a social worker who can help you. Daycare help is also available, State pays for it, so you can go to school. Social worker should also be able to provide you with a therapist who is free (once you have health insurance) or sliding scale (means: you pay what you can afford) to deal with this tragic loss and to help you cope with raising your siblings. You've taken on a lot of responsibility but your parents are proud of you. Keep going.

I am so very sorry for you loss and the pain you are now in.

Sending very gentle ((hugs)) of comfort your way.

:-) Patricia

thanks everyone and i live in england and i get money to help support use and i have custody because my mum n dad left them to me x

You are very brave sweetie. Sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you get help with raising your siblings and yourself. Good luck to you and your siblings will love you even more for keeping them together especially during this very difficult time.

(((HUGS)))

hiya,

Sadly i can relate somewhat to how you feel because i lost my mum in november of last year and im still not really coping with it. I hope things will get easier with time for both of us.

xx

I saw your post and wanted to say that I know how yoiu feel at least in one way, I lost my dad in april of 07 and still find it really hard some days. I would love to help you any way I can and have someone to talk to. I'm sorry for your loss. message or hug anytime,
ry

so sorry 4 ur loss. i hope u find healing here.

I am So Sorry.. I lost both of mine too. My dad in may and my mom in august.. God Bless Your Heart! Your so young and Brave!
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