Big hug for you serenityspeaks..... I am so very sorry for your loss and the pain that you're in.... Losing my mom was the worst loss I've had

What I've found over time that as well as mourning that we do eventually come to celebrating our loved one however first we go through the grief and it hurts

Big hug and a blessing..... xo

I am so very sorry for you, and for all you are going through.

My sister passed away at that age, leaving her husband and 2 children behind. Nobody experiences loss exactly the same way, but I can imagine what you are going through. (My mother when I was about 61, my father passed almost exactly one year later.)

Yes, it is very hard, even harder when we lose them during holiday seasons. Talking, venting, or just sitting sadly doing nothing are all parts of the way we cope with losses.

Gentle hugs, and please feel free to vent here as much as you need.

I'm Very Sorry to read of your loss....Loosing your Mom is a hard concept in life. I know when my Mom died, my life totally changed. What you are feeling now is So Normal. The confusion and chaotic 'busy' can add to the confusion. Try to be gentle with yourself and remember Good Self Care...sleep, fluids, eating...my best to you! ((Hugs))

I'm really sorry for your loss. My mom was 58 when she died too, 2 years ago now. Similarly, although she was sick (cancer) the end came so very fast- while on one hand I was expecting it, on the other, it felt so unbelievably sudden- my mom got an infection and died within a week. I, too, never thought I would deal with the loss of my mom when I did. I was only 33 years old and her parents were (and still are!) still alive. It's so confusing, disorienting and overwhelming to lose a mom- particularly when they/ you are so young. Big hugs to you!

Thanks for all kind responses

You have my sympathy. My parents are in their late 80s and I am terrified whenever one of them gets sick. You are never ready. Find a grief support group. Local churches should have them. Talking with people who have gone through this will help.

I am so very sorry about your mom. Prayers. I just lost my dad and he was ill for a number of years also. I certainly wasn't ready for it even though I knew it was coming. I don't think you can ever be prepared for the loss of a beloved parent. May God wrap His comforting arms around you and give you peace.

I am sorry for your loss. Your mom was very young too. I don't know that we can e error be prepared for the death of a parent. I lost my dad recently after an extended illness and watching him decline for many years. He was in really bad shape but I still wasn't ready to give him up. Only by the help of the Lord am I getting by. I'll keep you in prayers.

I’m so sorry for your loss, friend. Sending prayers for you, that the Lord will continue to uphold you and touch you with His healing hand whenever you hurt. ((Hugs))