Bereavement Support Group
Are you grieving the loss of a loved one? Whether you lost someone recently or it's been years, grief and its accompanying emotions can be complicated to cope with. Join our online support group to connect with a supportive group of people who really know how you feel. Help is right here.
godisawesom
it has been a year since my friend died and the thoughts keep coming in my mind of when i tried waking him to the time he was in the hosptial still unresponsive it is so hard getting that day out of my mind i have been tring to do things to take my mind off the thoughts off my mind but they keep coming back it makes me feel like i did something or did not do enough please help
Scott46
I'm so sorry for your loss. Time wont decrease the pain by itself. You have to work at it. And it will fester like an illness if not treated. I suggest you check local hospices and hospitals for a grief support group. They are usually free. Or you might look into private counseling. If that is not an option, there are some very good books on grief; some of them deal specifically with loss of a spouse. Another option, if you go to church, is talk to the pastor. But find some help. This is a great site and I hope you stay but I think you need some face to face help. God bless. Scott
deleted_user
I lost my mom 13 months ago, I can remember the day so clearly when I opened the door at 11am I saw her lying on the sofa, her stomach not moving up and down.... I put my hands over my mouth, luckily my grandma was with me, she walked in behind me and asked me what's wrong? but then she saw. I know I didnt do enough, if I had only known, I could have prevented her death with one phone call the night before she died....I dont have anything positive to say....other than I know how you feel. I think its okay to feel this way, its only been a year. but you still have to go on with your life and make the best of it...one day at a time. try to clear your mind, meditate, new hobbies....
deleted_user
It says in the Bible that GOD knows the number of our days before we are even born.I believe the Bible so therefore there is nothing that either one of you could have done to change what happened.I am sorry for your loss but it is not your fault.
godisawesom
sorry for your lost and thank you for your reply it really helped me alot
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