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tabby2010
Hi I am new to this group I have indured some major loses in my family One of my major losses was my Aunt beth . She one special person. She was just like me we both were adopted. My aunt was married to a guy named Jerry They had two sons Zack and Jerramy. when my parents would go down to our farm in London kentucky we would always stop and vist my aunt before comming back home. One day my mom got a call from one of my family members down in london They called to tell my mom that My aunt was dead she was murdered . When found out the news I was in shock and disbelief. I kept asking my mom who would want to hurt aunt Beth. . She then sat me down and told me that My aunts husband shot her I started crying. Why would my uncle kill his wife. The story getts even sadder.
A few weeks after her death we found out that my Uncle jerry was being reallly mean to my aunt. He used to tie her hands behind her back and he would make her sit in a chair while he held a gun to her head. . He started being very controlling when ever we were down there in London visting. My aunt would come up and vist us for just a mintute. . She said one day I have to go guys If I don't get back home Jerry will be angery. We never really thought much about it
My aunt was going to leave him the night she was killed . We don't really know all of the details of the shooting all we know is that that after He shot his wife He went out and stood on the fron t porch He called the cops and told them I just shot my wife. Then the police came and he was arested. He only got 14 years for killing my aunt. Hes been in jail since 2002 He will be getting out in a few years . I never ever want to see him again. I missm y aunt a lot. I am still having trouble acceting that shes gone. and that she won't ever be comming back.
A few weeks after her death we found out that my Uncle jerry was being reallly mean to my aunt. He used to tie her hands behind her back and he would make her sit in a chair while he held a gun to her head. . He started being very controlling when ever we were down there in London visting. My aunt would come up and vist us for just a mintute. . She said one day I have to go guys If I don't get back home Jerry will be angery. We never really thought much about it
My aunt was going to leave him the night she was killed . We don't really know all of the details of the shooting all we know is that that after He shot his wife He went out and stood on the fron t porch He called the cops and told them I just shot my wife. Then the police came and he was arested. He only got 14 years for killing my aunt. Hes been in jail since 2002 He will be getting out in a few years . I never ever want to see him again. I missm y aunt a lot. I am still having trouble acceting that shes gone. and that she won't ever be comming back.
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This is a heavy burden and a terrible tragedy. Pray for comfort and find a grief counselor, someone who can help you process this horrible event. Talk to your parents about it, tell them how deeply you've been affected. They love you. They will support you.
Your dealing not only with your aunt's death but with more personal issues within yourself and believe me Eilzeena is giving you advice and she is right your aunt is one of the ones who is with God in Paradise.
As for your uncle, he is dealing with his own demons and you can not be caught up in it by not forgiving him. I know this sounds like I am crazy but it is for your own good that you need to.
If you can not forgive Him, tell Jesus that you can not do it on your own, ask Him to help you forgive. it is hard on a person to forgive that tremendous pain they inflicted on you. It can be over powering and engulf all of your thoughts and make you feel hate and see red hot anger.
Since your parents want you to deal with it, ask Jesus to help you deal with it. He will send the right ones in your life to help you.
You did come to the right place and pour out your pain here, there are many here who know pain and can help you.
Add me, I have a journal entry you should see about my ex husband and I.
God Bless You
My thoughts and prayers are with you.