It is OK to feel like there is a hole in our hearts when a loved one passes. But it is also OK to start filling that hole in with love and friendships from others. IT is very rare (impossible?) to find one person who can fill the hole all by themselves, but it is very possible to find a collection of people who fill that hole.

And that does not mean that we do not love them.

I am so very sorry that you are hurting. It takes time, but we can all make it.

So who did you lose?

Gentle hugs

big hugs to you. try to think of things about the person/people that you miss that make you smile or remember the good conversations you had with them. photographs help too. above all take it easy on yourself and rest as much as you can. grief is exhausting.

Big hug for you Blueboy..... I am so sorry that you're hurting..... I have felt like you're describing ... I think many of us have
I've lost my birth family..... for a time all I felt was the grief.... Now I can also celebrate their lives....

They passed in a short period of time compared to how long they lived so I think celebrating what they brought to my life is important.... It's what they would want for me as well I think it's what they deserve

If you have lost people fairly recently mourning is something that we go through.... If you have lost people some time ago and are feeling suicidal sweetie you should seek some medical help.... The loss may have triggered a depression ..... There is good help for depression..... Gentle hug and a blessing.....xo

Hi. Im feeling lost and like im in a dark hole too. I lost my mom 11 years ago and its still so fresh and painful. I find the best thing for me is trying to accept my feelings even when they hurt. Another thing that helps me is distraction. But nothing takes away the inner loss right now.
Hope you start to feel better