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I have to write this column and I wont make any friends here today.But I
have noticed lately that a lot of people here in seattle and especially in
New York have hoof and mouth disease.These people are very nice
people.Some you may even work with.But a great deal of them dont know
how to say words of comfort and when they do all chaos starts.When Brad died it was in the paper.Since it was a local paper noone else knew.Someone in Brads family contacted his work and I received nothing from them at all.And that is surprizing and i felt hurt,.But the words of wisdome coming out of their mouths have caused me nothing but more grief and pain.One woman asked me if Brad has left me any
money.And he did to take care of the bills and his family helped me out
but what does she want to know for? What is is her business in the
first place? Another one I threw a cup of water in his face when he had
the nerve of calling Brad crazy.First of all...it is not crazy.Brad was a
manic depressive and he wasnt no medication for years..He was able to hide it.To call someone crazy who has a chemical imbalance shows that
your mouth is where the sun dont shine.This is what I want to say to you
Couldnt you say I am sorry? But crazy?Secondly,I have got no reason to
get rid of the cats and move into senior housing.Why? Because I dont
make the income and I dont want to move out of the house where I am
at for 5 years.Besides....I have got nothing in common with any of
these seniors since I still listen to rock and roll and I love heavy
metal music.The last concert I went to was Guns N Roses and I am
a big fan of Axl Rose.To ask these questions "Are you going to move?"
Shows an immaturity on your part.To state dirty words such as crazy
half crazy shows comment.To state if he was not Christian shows
intolerance and let me tell you this.........This is nonsense and let us
stop.SO be it ....vader.
have noticed lately that a lot of people here in seattle and especially in
New York have hoof and mouth disease.These people are very nice
people.Some you may even work with.But a great deal of them dont know
how to say words of comfort and when they do all chaos starts.When Brad died it was in the paper.Since it was a local paper noone else knew.Someone in Brads family contacted his work and I received nothing from them at all.And that is surprizing and i felt hurt,.But the words of wisdome coming out of their mouths have caused me nothing but more grief and pain.One woman asked me if Brad has left me any
money.And he did to take care of the bills and his family helped me out
but what does she want to know for? What is is her business in the
first place? Another one I threw a cup of water in his face when he had
the nerve of calling Brad crazy.First of all...it is not crazy.Brad was a
manic depressive and he wasnt no medication for years..He was able to hide it.To call someone crazy who has a chemical imbalance shows that
your mouth is where the sun dont shine.This is what I want to say to you
Couldnt you say I am sorry? But crazy?Secondly,I have got no reason to
get rid of the cats and move into senior housing.Why? Because I dont
make the income and I dont want to move out of the house where I am
at for 5 years.Besides....I have got nothing in common with any of
these seniors since I still listen to rock and roll and I love heavy
metal music.The last concert I went to was Guns N Roses and I am
a big fan of Axl Rose.To ask these questions "Are you going to move?"
Shows an immaturity on your part.To state dirty words such as crazy
half crazy shows comment.To state if he was not Christian shows
intolerance and let me tell you this.........This is nonsense and let us
stop.SO be it ....vader.
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Vader, you are grappling with so much, my heart goes out to you. I can feel your anger and frustration. I can't begin to console you, I wish I could, but I can empathize with your grief and loss. You know your heart, follow it. I do believe there are good people here who genuinely want to be supportive and I am one of them. Feel free to vent to me, I promise to listen without judgement and support you however I can. Blessings to you, and peace of mind.
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