I’m so sorry for your loss . Words can’t describe how you feel unfortunately I know that feeling. I lost my son going on 3 years now. I hoping you have a therapist to talk to even having a therapist is so hard. We just sat there for months. Other than that try not to run from your feelings which I still do to this day. Just acknowledge your feeling however you feel. Other than that you put one foot in front of the other. Time doesn’t heal time just changes your feelings. I pray that you will find peace. Again I’m so sorry for you loss. .

Hi wesltara5,

This news is a sad disaster. I am so sorry with this. God bless you & the soul of your beloved son, may he rest in peace, and in the memory of your love & the glory of God's love be with him.

The best days of your life will now be as how you identify your love for your son in the conscious memory of his mortal life on a daily basis. And even though he is active in a sphere of existence other than this earth, he continues with constant loving memory of you as well, forever and ever. And there are many times when you will have a peaceful memory of him, yet at short times there will be spells of anxiety. Reliable are those things which shake off the sense of this awful situation. For example: it is a comfort that he is no longer a part of the wickedness & cruelty of worldly matters, no more lusts of the flesh will he battle; he is in a safe place now. Another idea is that he is in the loving presence & care of beloved family who've also passed on to their own spiritual rest. Then, there is the hope of salvation in Christ, the resurrection, and the hope of your greatest understanding of this matter of death. Please keep in mind that building a foundation of faith-based trust in God-given power is very much a generous part of emotional healing. There are many church-related programs in which you may reach out for strong support as well. What you experience now requires the love of family, friends & new people to care for you & help you move through this sadness & pain in a healthy way. And it's great that you are within an online bereavement group. Please stay active here & cling to as much comfort as you can.
Much love & many warm thoughts to you...

Remiah </3

@hikingmtn, much godly love to you for the loss of your son. God be with you.

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I am so very sorry for your loss. We lost my sister in 2011, and it hit my parents really hard. She was 56 when she died, so it was much different than your loss. My parents also lost a child at childbirth some 60 years ago.

Mom and dad never talked much to me or my sister about the baby they lost other than to tell us that they had a 3rd child to keep her parents happy, and when they lost that baby they told her parents to keep their nose out of their decisions to have or not have more children.

Mom was starting dementia when sister died, and she was never really able to process it. Dad did much better; before he died he really hoped that her husband would get married to his girlfriend because we all liked the new woman in his life. (Dad died before they got married.)

Sorry to get side tracked. Guess I'm trying to say that losing a child is very hard, and every parent deals with it their own way. The trick is to deal with it even if it means professional help.

There is a new normal for you out there, one without your son. It will be hard, very hard, but my experiences with loss (my birth family is gone) reveals that there is a pass out of it. Talk, vent, yell, scream, cry, sulk, do what ever you need. But do not bottle it up inside, do not deny your anger, rage, hurt, sorrow, etc.

I really think it is important to renew ties to "the outside world" as quickly as possible. The longer we stay away, the more we withdraw and don't get the human contact we need. You may wan to avoid things that were part of your and your son's lives, or you may want to embrace them. Neither is correct on incorrect; the point is to find things that work for you.

Please feel free to vent here as much asyou need.

gentle hugs

Big hug for you wesltara I am so very sorry for your loss and the pain that you're in.... I've not lost a child however a couple of people close to me have

A RL support group for people who have lost children might be a really good support for you... You help one another to work through the grief and pain together

Deep breaths.... Right now getting through this moment is maybe all that you can do..... Another hug and a blessing.....xo

Hey Sorry for your loss.

I lost my husband 0n 24/10/17 but one thing i remember is the counselor telling me you must understand that as much it is painful it is your grief.People may sympathize with you but at the end of the day it is you who knows what you are going through.When you feel overwhelmed just take a break in private cry and ask God for help.
Remember to Ask God to give you the strength to let him go slowly. As you can not love him the way you used to by these i mean you cannot prepare for him meals like you used to you cannot talk to him on phone maybe like you used to.But you can now love him differently if he had children love his children just as he would have loved them.
Dont hold too much attachments to his belongings,if you can let them go apart from those things you really valued this will help you heal.His memories will forever remain with you but you have to continue living ask yourself what is it that keeps you going.
God bless

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. It's a tragedy. There are not right words for this. And unless someone has an understanding of what this unique loss is like it's hard to understand. I lost my husband to an accidental overdose 2 months ago and there are simply no words to describe the feeling.

Just know that your son would want you to keep moving forward. You will have good days and you will have bad days. It is how you live your life that you will honor his memory. And I hope for you and I both that one day, in a far away place we get to see our boys.

My heart is with you!

its been 15 months since my sons death . i still feel every day like my ribs have been beaten with a ball bat . diaphragm muscle tension from stress and heartache . nerve medication from the va isnt going to happen . they have a prescribing mess theyve been mandated to straighten out and if a few people die from heart attacks it wont reflect on them . it can be blamed on tobacco or something .

I am so sorry for your loss. I have lost two adopted sons and my blood son I was able to review him.. my life is so lost but I have to stay strong for my granddaughters and that lay be able to start to work again in