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i miss my momma

almostvisable_1988
almostvisable_1988

hello im new to this group and i was just hoping i could share something with you all and hopefully get some helpful feed back that may get me threw my heart ache and loss. My mom passed away almost 2 1/2 years ago and it still hurts the pit of my stomach we were close and im  grown up but i honestly miss the worst advice in the world she would give me so that i can work it out for my self but she still took credit for the idea she was funny like that she would call me using diferent voices as if i did not have caller ID i always new it wasnt miss cleo calling my mom wow she was...............Air

traceyc
traceyc
I lost my mum a couple of weeks ago she is yet still to be lay'd to rest i so understand how you feel i keep thinking ahh i must tell mum or mum will make me feel better but it is her i am so wanting back .. ;like you its her silly ness and her voice i miss so very much . i am so hurt for my children and my sisters children that thais has happened i just feel totally dead inside .. i am hoping that time will get easier but this present day its just crappy ..
Community LeaderThePepperMan
ThePepperMan
I am sorry for your loss. My mother died about 2 1/2 years ago as well, my father died a year later, both in August. I think that a certain amount of missing them is good, it means that they are still part of us, and they are still guiding us via our memory of them.

Even if that voice tries to tell us that it is Miss Cleo calling!
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD
Big hug for you almost..... I am so sorry for your loss..... I have lost my birth family as well......

My mom was the person I was closest to and sometimes it can still feel as though it just happened and it's been a few years now.... Other times I can think about her and smile and even laugh at some of the fun times we had

I do thing some things change us however we do find a way through.... I have found that I can now enjoy the laughter she still brings me to this day

Tracey I am so very sorry for your loss..... Big hug of comfort and a blessing......xo
almostvisable_1988
almostvisable_1988
thank you for these encouraging words Tracy im so sorry for your loss as well as you SunCLoudjd a family is a heavy load to hold and pepper man your right missing them brings memories that make you smile but also sadness but i feel it sparks what they really meant to you and my mom use too call acting like she was miss cleo lololo she was a trip
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