No youll never get over it. Youll learn to live with it. Its hard and I know this is going to sound cliche but its true.... Time is the best healer. Sending loving thoughts silvermay

OMG ~ you poor thing. I'm so sorry!!! Losing both your parents in such a short amount of time is awful!!! I've lost both my parents too, and I feel like an orphan, even at MY age. We NEVER get over our need for our parents - I don't care how old we are. There is always something we need or want to tell them or ask them. I lost Dad 20 years ago, and Mom 7 years ago ~ and it still hurts.

The "hurt" isn t pain anymore -- it's just a dull ache now. Its a longing for them.

One thing you must remember tho is we never really LOSE them. We will be united with them again ~ and they DO come to "viisit" us. They have the power to visit -- we can feel their presence in the room with us. We may be able to smell their perfume/cologne, or perhaps they even touch our shoulder. I've had "visits" before and they give me great peace. Be patient -- it takes time.

God bless you and my thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless. Hugs, Lee

im so srry!!! ur in my prayers

I feel your pain. I lost my Dad 6 months ago and found this site the next day. It has been a God-send to me. Talking to people who have gone through a recent death and understand the deep deep ache of grief is a small start in the healing process. I totally shut down after my Dad died. He was my very very best friend and confidont. We always joked and chatted and he was just a fun, fun man. I feel your pain and just want you to know you can chat with me any time. It helps me also. God bless and don't forget to tell God your heart. If you need to cry, scream, sleep, write, or pray; do what you need to and know it's all ok. Kimmie

well my day just gets better i have just found out i have cervical cancer

I am so sorry,I know what you are going through,I lost my dad four years ago..I have a group on here called "Daughters Without Fathers"..you are more than welcome to join and post a picture of your dad..

Bless both your parents. Allow yourself to cry with your siblings. It's ok to grieve and to show it. It hurts terribly, but you are among the fortunate folk who have had lovely parents, who will continue to guide and love you. Mourning is not for them, but for us whose life experience is not yet over. Be kind to yourself and remember the love that many will give you now. A few will be clumsy and unthinking, forgive them, but most people here have been in your shoes and walked your road. We will help all we can

I am so sorry to hear about both of your parents because I am a living witness to this type of loss, therefore I understand your pain. I'm imagining that three weeks apart must be a huge load for you. I hope that you continue to be strong. I lost my parents 8 months apart and it is still a struggle for me to accept. Some days are better than others and hopefully your pain will ease as the time goes by.

Oh my god. Both parents in such a short time. I m so sorry. Its good you are strong for the others but you need o grieve as well. Allow yourself to hurt. You could maybe look into a grief support group. Most hospices or hospitals can direct you to one. Helped me a lot. God bless.

So sorry to hear about the lost of your parents. Yes this has not been a good month at all but you have the right idea about trying to be strong for yourself and Family. It will be a challenge and it will get better with time.
Take good care as best you can and keep in mind that you an awesome support group here as well.

Sorry to hear that you lost your parents, I lost my mom last month, on 3/10....everyday is harder...but have to keep on living to be strong for our family...