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I have now accepted Franks death

vader
vader
I have now accepted Franks death and it took me a long time.I realize now that he aint coming back and he is in a better place.Frank never wanted to be a vegetable like the late Karen Quinlan was.Her case divided all of New Jersey and he did not want this.So I decided after all time..I am going to live.As of 2009...I am going to take a vacation and do things that I like and if my friends dont like..they can take a flying leap!And today I realized just how great Frank was.He loved everyone and always wanted to learn and he always wanted the best for everyone.And there is a saying that Frank had in his bible..it said this..I believe in life.I believe in love.And I believe in God..even when He is silent.And sometimes God is silent..but he lets us makes choices and sometimes well they aint so good..and I just cant blame God for this and that.I realize that God is love.
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You are such an amazing person.I totally agree with you. My blessings are with you .
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I totally agree with you. I am not to that point yet, but I hope I get there. I lost my husband this summer and it has been a nightmare. I was with in bed asleep in the middle of the night. Right now, it is day to day. BUt I am so proud to here someone who has lost their spouse to say. Love, Live God- on with life. I hope someday, I can do it. di708
alicea
alicea
I am working towards that wonderful place that you are in and have achieved. I have accepted my husband's death,it's just figuring out WHAT TO DO NOW???? Hugs, Alice
vader
vader
To all who have replied.I want to thank you.It is Monday in seattle here and I am home.My aunt passed away on Saturday.It was a big shock.She was 85 and quite ill.I will never forget here and her strength.Happy weekend to you all>
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Sorr for your losses. Love your attitude! Gotta look up and keep movin'.
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deleted_user
Good for you! I am so glad that you have acceptance in your heart and are looking ahead. Your family should be nothing less than thrilled for you!
It takes such a strong person to move on and taking a vacation is a perfect way to begin.
God Bless you on your journey!
vader
vader
This is my second reply.I have to catch up.I have been so busy with work and such..But I do believe that there is a time when we must let go and I have to.Frank will always be part of me and I will never forget him.Never.And noone will ever match up to him or my late father..not even Brad..because Brad my dear is like all seattle men..an idiot.