Bereavement Support Group
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LAURAAAAA
No one believed in me the way my mom did. She was so proud of me and what i planned to do with my life, no matter what my goal was she told me to go for it.. No one gave me the kind of easy acceptance that i always got from her. The pain and grief comes on so suddenly sometimes it makes it hard to breath and I start to cry and once i start its hours til i can stop again. I dont think i ever told her how much i appreciated her being there for me. I'm 20 and i'm getting married and all i want to do is tell her all about it because i know how excited she would be for me. I want her to help me pick out my dress and to show her my ring and introduce her to kevin. And then iremember that i wont see her at my wedding.. and i'm heartbroken all over again. I never even told her i was dating him before she passed in july.
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My dear Laura, your mother was exceptional, she gave you unconditional love just as I gave my daughter. Death is physical separation, that's ALL IT IS. Your mother's soul LIVES ON, I guaranty it. I could write books on this topic and many books HAVE been written, but I can tell you from personal experience that death is NOT THE END. Your Mom still loves you, she still believes in you, she WILL BE THERE on your wedding day, and if God makes the choice to allow it, you may even see her/sense her presence, perhaps often. I've spoken to many, many people who have seen/felt the presence of loved ones. I SAW my DAUGHTER last month! The legacy of motherhood she gave you will be passed on to YOUR children. You know how to be a good mother, a good woman, a kind and giving spirit. Go: live, laugh, love, this is the best tribute you can give her, and one day you will see her again. Life goes by in the blink of an eye.
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