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vader
Soon my beloved brothers birthday will come.I am at an deep oh!Frank has been gone for 4 years.It was 4 years on 8/1/2008.Frank did not want to be put in the ground..he asked to be cremated.He also asked Stanley to put his ashes where he used to in the rose garden.All I know is that the cremation was private.This is what he wanted.The amount of people who were was amazing.It was like a revival of the old neighborhood.I couldnt at all believe it.I saw people that I havent seen in 40 years.Frank loved these gatherings.He always did.When the cremation ceremony was over..they gave the ashes to Stanley.They were in a silver urn.Stanley tried to contact Whitney the owner of the ranch..but to no avail.So he and Joyce took the 6 hour drive.It was on a hot muggy day in August of 2004.When he arrived in this town..since it is very small..they told him that the ranch was sold and the new owner couldnt kept it up.He went bankrupt..but he was having a showing of the ranch..so Stanley called him and they went.He told the owner about the ashed and was told that he couldnt bury them on the property if he didnt get an owner..but they told him about a community garden and when he went there..they remembered Frank.There was a rose plant in this community garden that noone touches.It has a white fence about it..and the owner told Stanley that he could bury the ashes by the plant.Luckily..there was a minister looking for
herbs and he said that he would do a prayer.A crowd of 10 people..some who knew Frank..others who didnt know gathered around and prayed.A white balloon was released and after it was released..Stanley took the ashes and now they are buried by the rose plant in the garden where my beloved brother loved.Your birthday is coming up..what shall I do? How should I celebrate this year? I will always miss you Frank and noone can and will replace you.Noone.
herbs and he said that he would do a prayer.A crowd of 10 people..some who knew Frank..others who didnt know gathered around and prayed.A white balloon was released and after it was released..Stanley took the ashes and now they are buried by the rose plant in the garden where my beloved brother loved.Your birthday is coming up..what shall I do? How should I celebrate this year? I will always miss you Frank and noone can and will replace you.Noone.
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My Mom's birthday was this past Saturday (she passed away this June) and me, my daughter Casey, my husband Rick and my brother Mickey went down to the cemetary and put flowers. Sat there (drank a beer)talked and cried. Then we went and ate at her favorite restaurant Rocky and Carlo's in Chalmette, LA. We also played Video Poker for my nephew Tony who is also buried with my Mom (he passed away this May at the age of 31. Some people think this is strange but this will be our tradition.
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Saturday was our day to relax, watch a movie, pray, enjoy each other. We began the afternoon either at one of her favorite restaurants or with a double cheese pizza. I now celebrate Sue every other Saturday with the pizza, at home. While eating, I talk aloud about the good times, remembering how she stood at the window, how she rode her horse, how she smiled...
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Today would have been my husband's 38th birthday. We are all getting together, to have his favorite dinner and strawberry cake. We are than writing messages on 38 balloons and releasing them. I understand how hard this is for you. I am struggling to get through the day. God Bless.....
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