you can ask about the non-yappy part when you go to pick him/her out at the pound. (I commend you for that by the way)

You should be sure that you are willing to walk the dog at least a couple of times every day. Good luck!

I have 2 dogs and they are allways there for me I can tell them anything and it keeps my mind of things for a little while, I think its good , But for barking you will have to train, They become part of the family.

I would ask the people where yo are going to look at them, which would be best for your situaion. And yes, pets can be very theraputic to someone who is grieving. They love you unconditionally, they don't judge you, and the simplist things you do for them are wholly appreciated. They will be your comfort, your confidant and become your best friend forever. HUggs, Rainbow

I don't think I would make it without my dogs. When you rescue a pet, not only does it make you feel good inside, but that pet will adore you, they know and appreciate. Spend some time with the dogs at the pound, one will pick you out. Good Luck.

I agree with others - check wherever you get the dog about what to expect. But I know of someone also grieving and living alone whose family did same recently. First, I think the recipient was almost annoyed with the added responsibility but now they've found it to be very helpful - company - as if they're needed, you know to care for them, etc.

a cat may not understand english but mine sure know when i need them to come and set in my lap! i would never make it without my 4 cats who have adopted me over the past few years

I don't think I would have survived the loss of my Mom had I not had Austin.

we purchased my daughter a jack russell terrier after gavin passed away. but living on her own and working it didn't work out. she traded him to my girlfriend for 2 kittens and seem to know when she needs them to snuggle her.

A pet can be a great help, especially if you have a good bond with them.

My cat is extra special to me because he's also the last gift my Grandpa gave me before he passed away. I had begged for one since his was put to sleep when I was little. While he was in the hospital he told me there was a special at the SPCA and I could have a cat. (I was 17 by then.) I found out later that there was no special. I think he realized I was going to need the extra comfort.

Over 14 years later I still have the cat and I don't know what we'd do without eachother. He just knows when something's not right and even seems to try to take care of me when I'm not feeling well. He's kind of like a teddy bear that cuddles back... and sometimes all we need is a good cuddle.

Animals are very perceptive of their people. I would suggest starting with a young one if you don't mind the training, just for the bonding factor. Although older pets can become just as attached.

Good luck with your doggie.

I GOT A DOG HER NAME IS KATIE AND I JUST GOT HER A WEEK AGO I THINK WELL SHE IS A GREAT PET.

I got a Tenterfield Terrier (mini fox terrier) one week before my Dad was killed. He was the BEST thing that happened. He is such good company. This is the first small/inside dog we've had and he's a member of the family now. Jack Russell's tend to be hyperactive and yappy.

I couldn't have managed without my dog. Go for it, but do some research first. I've heard that Beagles are wonderful pets.

I adopted an adorable Cocker Spaniel mix from the pound a few months after my Dad died. I live in a one-bedroom apartment, and was worried about the space issue, too.

I can say that it was the BEST decision I've made in a long time. My friends and family majorly discouraged me from doing it-they thought it would be too much. At first, it was overwhelming. There is ALWAYS a 1-3 month adjustment period for you and the doggie. I almost gave up a few times when I felt like I coudn't handle everything. But, after a few months, my doggie totally bonded with me and came out of the scared shell he had from being dumped in the pound. He's the most lovable doggie in the world and cheers me up so much. Also, when I was depressed about my Dad, i'd stopped exercising as much. Having a dog rely on you to take him for walks is great. It forced me to get out the door and stop moping around. Overall, I can't say enough good things about it. :)

A few months after my Mom passed away we got a Shih-Tzu for dad. They are attached at the hip. Buddy seems to know when Dad is having a bad time. He will jump up in his lap and cuddle while Dad cries. I've had a similar experience with my cat. God gave them a way to sense when we need tlc. Grief is a very stressful time and having a pet can help relieve that. Studies have proven they have a calming effect. Blessings in your search.
Stacie

I have two cats and they help me SO much! I love dogs too but can't have them where we live at the moment. As soon as I am able, I am getting a dog too. My kitties just give me so much love. They sometimes make me forget about being sad. They are so darn cute!

I notice most small dogs are "yappy" dogs! But not all of them. My aunt owns 3 yorkshire terriers and they do bark, but are trained very well, and easily calm down. I have 2 cats and got one of them 2 days after my friends died in a car accident. It did help having something there to talk to, even if it didn't talk back. And dogs are definitly man's/woman's best friend! I say go for it and good luck.