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but hey hi my name is glory child. I joined this group months ago but just now feel like i can reach out for help.
I lost my mom to cancer at four years ogo. since that day i have NEVER ever been the same. I look like her act like her. but she is not here and that realllly really hurts internally. thing is she died at 30 i had so much "looking up to during those years that it was a little easier to bear . but now ive reached the age of her after she died im now 35 and i dont know who to pattern myself after. to boot, im bi polar and if you can relate know that stess compounds and builds the loss of my mom is powerful during the months of may in fact i cycle rapidly. any one know how i can cope? is this question better raised in the bipolar community? if yes, im an active member.
I lost my mom to cancer at four years ogo. since that day i have NEVER ever been the same. I look like her act like her. but she is not here and that realllly really hurts internally. thing is she died at 30 i had so much "looking up to during those years that it was a little easier to bear . but now ive reached the age of her after she died im now 35 and i dont know who to pattern myself after. to boot, im bi polar and if you can relate know that stess compounds and builds the loss of my mom is powerful during the months of may in fact i cycle rapidly. any one know how i can cope? is this question better raised in the bipolar community? if yes, im an active member.
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Hi Glorychild, and welcome. My condolences on your loss. I too, am Bi-Polar and know how much it can play a role in our greif and ability to move on. You said:"I don't know who to pattern myself after." I am assuming you had a relationship with a mom and dad. *(?) First of all, you are you, an unique, one of a kind individual, and you need to know who you are, so that you can live your life in a happy, peaceful way. Next, if you loved your parents, and see some of their good traits in you, develope them, cherish them, and live them out. The world is yours, choices are yours, and we each have to create our own sense of happiness and purpose, I know you'll find yours, maybe...you already have! Huggs Rainbow
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i lost my dad my nan my 1 cousin my aunmty 2 years ago same year hon u never are the same hon we treasure our memories and feel then around us xx
glorychild
thank you so much rainbow mama its good to know im not the only one:)
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